Ballerific Relationships: Let’s Toy Around – blogged by: @proudlylauren

I often find that sexy toys are typically associated with the idea that they are intended for, and solely beneficial to lonely people who are tasked with the solo mission of making themselves cum. However, like most blanket statements of its caliber, such is not true at all; you see, sex toys can be a great addition to the bedroom, adding new found pleasure, distinctive sensations, and memorable orgasms for both you and your lover. Not only can these little (and sometimes no so little) magical toys add heat the bedroom, but there are tons of different options, guaranteed to fulfill whatever freaky fantasy you and your partner can dream up.

Keep reading to see which is right for you:

Vibrators

70% of women reach their climax from clitoral stimulus alone, rather than sexual intercourse; making vibrator’s one of the most sought after toys for women. Because of its ability to be used for direct clitoral stimulation, along with the many shapes and sizes they come in, this toy is sure to be a bedroom fav.

Speaking of different shapes and sizes, let’s look at the different types of vibrators there are:

• Anal vibrators are designed to be inserted into the rectum, which can be used to pleasure a woman or to stimulate the prostate in men.

• Bullet vibrators are small, bullet-shaped vibrators that can be used for direct stimulation by itself or inserted into other sex toys to increase stimulation. These toys are very discreet and travel easily.

• G-spot vibrators are toys that have a slight curve at one end in order to achieve stimulation of the female G-spot.

• The rabbit vibrator, has several variations and is made up of an insertable shaft which has mult-functions, such as rotating and internal beads for a thrusting motion. Along the surface of the shaft is a vibrating stimulator for the clitoris, and the most popular variation of this toy looks like bunny rabbit ears, that sit on either side of the clitoris.

• Vibrator wands are large vibrators that typically plug into an electrical source (opposed to operating on battery power) and are often marketed as general body or personal massagers. Because of their size, they are able to produce far more powerful vibration than its battery powered counterparts; and can also be used with varying attachments to achieve different sensations.

Anal Toys

These toys can be used on either male or female, and also come in different shapes and sizes. The smaller toys can be used for anal play beginners, while the larger and more complex one’s are to be used with those who have experience.

This is one of those toys that go with the saying “practice makes perfect”:

• Anal beads are a long string with fluctuating sized beads along the length of the entire string. The length of the string, and width of the balls vary: there are shorter smaller one’s for beginners and longer larger one’s for the connoisseurs.

• Butt plugs are often shorter dildos, ranging in thickness, intended for anal insertion. 

• Prostate Massagers: are intended for men only, and are designed to arouse a man’s prostate for both health and pleasure.

Penile Toys

As the name suggests, these toys offer stimulation to the penis and scrotum area on a man. Most of them can either be used solo-dolo during masturbation, or with a partner during intercourse, for added intensity.

• A ball lock is a toy that resembles an ordinary padlock, and is secured around the scrotum, separating the testicles away from the penis and is only removable with key or combination.

• Cock rings create the sensation of tightness and engorgement and prolongs male erection by holding blood inside the penis. Some models have a protruding clitoral stimulator to be used during sex, and some cock rings also have vibrators attached which can be used to pleasure a partner during sexual intercourse.

• A cock harness is an intricately designed harness to be worn around the penis and scrotum. Its function is similar to that of a cock ring.

• A triple crown is a special cock-ring that has special rings for restraining the testicles. When men orgasm, the testicles usually retract toward the body before ejaculation; however a triple crown intensifies the sensation of orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body.

• A penis extension is a partially hollow device, with the hollow end placed on the end of the penis, intended to increase the length of the penis, for the benefit of the person being penetrated.

• A penis sleeve is a cylindrical device that is placed on the shaft of the penis, much like an extension, with the goal of increasing stimulation for the person being penetrated. They often have soft bumps, or ridges anticipated to provide further stimulation.

Now that you’ve read about all the options, I challenge you and your significant other to head to the nearest sex novelty store and purchase a new toy to conquer every month or so. Over time you’ll have an extensive collection to choose from, and enough memorable orgasms to keep the bedroom smoking hot! Happy sexing!