Ballerific Relationships – The Break Baby By: Milagros Reyes @milagreee

The Break Baby. Before you start shooting off the “oh hell no’s” Let me give you a scenario. 

So you and your man have had it with each other. You’re at each others throats all the time, you cant stand the sight of one another. You leave the room each time he comes in. Youve had it and so has he and you mutually decide to break up.

Now hes seeing another woman. You’re on your couch mopping and eating brownies, chocolate, ice cream, what ever you can find to eat your feelings away, watching “How to Lose a

Guy in Ten Days.” while social media is showing you that he’s having a grand old time with his new girl. At some point, your phone rings and the name “Bastard Do Not Answer” shows up. You try to fight it but you answer anyway because Lord knows you miss even his annoying habit of keeping the seat up after he uses the toilet. Ex boyfriend has decided he needs to talk to you, so you meet up for coffee, looking as fly as ever of course, curious as to what he could possibly have to share with you. When he shows up, he’s giving you that look. You know the look I’m talking about, the look of adoration that he hasn’t given you since you used to be happy together.

He starts off by telling you that he misses you and that the girl that he is with just made it clear to him that you are the woman for him. She doesn’t do it for him like you do, she cant cook, she cant clean, and he misses your home made breakfast because her idea of breakfast is Mac Donalds before ten A.M.

He apologizes for the way he treated you and swears that you don’t know what you have till you loose it. The break you guys had made him open his eyes and you feel the same way. Not to mention, you’re looking exceptionally hot so that had to help some.

So the two of you get back together. You have great times again and he tells you that he wants to marry you. There is no one out there for him, theres no one like you and you’re the only one that he wants to share his life with.

Then one day, the phone rings and it’s clearly the other girl. -___- What can she possibly want? She wants to inform your man that she is a couple of months pregnant and planning on keeping the child. Youre first reaction is to punch him in the face. But you have to come down to reality. You two were not together at the time. If he is a real man, he will take care of his seed, even though you’re the one he wants to be with. The question is, do you have to accept this whole scenario or should you move on? Logically speaking, im sure a lot of females will want to leave him. But if everything that you guys feel for each other is accurate, you should support him. He didn’t choose to have this child and he didn’t mean to ruin your relationship. You should get over the slap in the face that this must feel like and realize that this is a child that NEEDS their father in their life. You don’t want to be the one that took a perfectly innocent child away from his father. I am not saying it isnt going to hurt but you have to think of this child. He or she needs his father and if you really love him, you’ll accept his seed as well.