Ballerific Relationships – The Way Men Think – Written by marvinady

Women are complex and men are simple. That’s the belief right? Well as difficult as it is for a man to understand a woman, women often cannot comprehend the way men think. Before understanding the way a man thinks, women are quick to be critical of the way a man behaves. While every relationship needs the “3 Big C’s”, Communication, Commitment, & Consistency, it is imperative to add a fourth “C”, Comprehension. Ladies, having an understanding of the way a man thinks can help you better explain his behavior.

Kissing vs. Sex
Intimacy is having a close affectionate relationship with another person. Though being intimate can be characterized by passion or sexual activity, men can have sex without being intimate. As a matter of fact, kissing is more of an intimate act than sex is. Men do not need an emotional attachment to have sex with someone, just a physical attraction. Kissing however, is a testament to how a man feels about a woman. For a man, there’s more of a connection in kissing than there is having sex; early on at least. Ladies, don’t be alarmed if at the beginning of the relationship, that sex means more to you than him.

One Track Mind
Men think about sex. They think about it often. It would be extremely difficult to point out when they are not thinking of it. When a man sees a woman, he is not thinking, “Now that’s a girl I want to marry”, he is thinking, “I can’t wait to get her in the doggystyle position”. His every move, from the words he says to a woman, to where he takes her on a date is geared towards getting her in between the sheets. Does that make him a bad person? No, it makes him a normal man. Men are physical creatures. They develop emotional attachments later in the relationship. Many women understand this and employ a “3-month” rule. Women have the right idea but implement it incorrectly. Instead of implementing a time specific rule, the rule should be based on the principle of allowing for sex to happen when the time is right.

Work In Progress
When it comes to women, dating, sex and relationships, men are stupid. Men aren’t stupid in these areas because of lack of intellect, but because of lack of instruction. Men constantly receive bad advice (unless they read The Party Life) and are easily influenced. Men often get advice from other men. Unfortunately, those other men tend to be “homeboys”. It is often a case of the blind leading blind. “Homeboys” frown upon “catching feelings” and showing an emotional attachment to a woman. They follow a “bros before hoes” creed; that is until they get their own girlfriend. Until then, misery loves company. Eventually, a man will learn from his own experiences and make decisions based on his own ideas. It takes some time before that maturity occurs, so mistakes regarding the opposite sex will happen. It’s all about personal growth and getting help from the right places.

Written by @marvinady