Dating can be pretty hectic, especially if you have been single for a long time. It’s literally like a roller coaster. Some dates are better than others while some are simply dreadful.
It seems like you keep attracting the same type of people and it’s going absolutely nowhere.
Have you ever thought of making a change? Changing how you go about dating? Seeing someone you like and making the first move?
Many women feel that they will come off as desperate if they were to make the first move. Also, some women can’t handle rejection but it’s time to put your pride aside and see what happens.
It’s natural for women to let the men make the first move. It’s how we were programmed. However, the problem is some men move as slow as molasses. Men know instantly that they like you but won’t say anything. It doesn’t help that they are incredibly hard to read.
As women, we know what we want and when we want it, which is our downfall at times. Sometimes a mixture of other emotions and past relationships can cause us to make rational decisions that could end up driving him away.
Many women believe that the woman is supposed to be approached, regardless of her attraction. They feel that coming on too strong can scare a man away, especially if he’s not exactly ready for a commitment, and his only intent was to “have fun.” Rushing the relationship is never a good idea. Other women feel that the thrill of the chase died decades ago, and it’s a new day. They feel that waiting too long can give off the wrong impression. It’s possible that he may think that you’re not interested in him and end up walking away. Nowadays, more women don’t want to wait and don’t mind making the first move.
At the end of the day, it’s about. communication. For those of you who’ve been both of these women, which approach was more successful for you?
Do you find that you get the guy when you go after him, or does he appreciate it more when you let him make the first move?