Ballerific Relationships: You & Your Bestie Are Feeling The Same Guy, Who Should Back Off?

It’s a dog eat dog world out here and with good men being an endangered species, what do you do to ensure that you don’t end up alone forever? Let’s say you and a good girl friend of yours meet a guy roughly around the same time. He’s a great guy and would definitely make a great catch, if you were only able to snag him. Just one small problem, your friend confesses she has a slight crush on him too. What do you do? Do you step aside and let your girl have at it or do you go in for the kill and try and snag him first?

I asked a few of my Twitter followers and here is what they had to say:

Question: If you and your friend fell for the same girl/guy at the same time. What would u do? Would u fall back?

@SharSings: yea. No point going there. obviously he’s not (a great catch) if he’s got two falling for him. I find that unlikely but that would make it harder indeed

@2SMALL_:  yes.. I wouldn’t want too ..but I would because I’m a loyal person.. guys come and go but your girls .. those r your girls

@KAMI2HOT: fall back; i don’t like guys that a lot of chicks are checking for but thank goodness i have different taste from all of my friends

@QueenBobbi:  may the best bitch win.

Out of all of these answers I agree with the last one, may the best bitch win. I feel that there is a man for every woman out there and who’s to say that this great guy isn’t mine? If I were in this position, I would definitely continue doing exactly what I had been doing before. If my feelings became so unbearable that I had to let the guy know how I felt, I would. Hopefully those feelings would be reciprocated. If not, you move on. At least I could say I tried. One thing I won’t do is just let some other woman take a man that I want, even if she’s a friend. Honestly, you never know if she’d even do the same for you. You may be the good friend to back away only for the other woman to go in for the kill. So in my opinion, may the best bitch win and if it isn’t me, it just isn’t me. 

What are your thoughts? do you fall back or go for it?