Calling the Other Woman Will Get Your Feelings Hurt

Calling the Other Woman Will Get Your Feelings Hurt -blogged by @peachkyss
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Many of us have been in situations where our significant other has cheated and left us furious. Regardless of how you found out, it happened and we had to handle the situation accordingly.
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After finding out your man has cheated, some women feel it’s necessary to call or approach the other woman to find out the details as if that’s going to help them make their final decision.
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When calling the other woman, keep in mind all women aren’t like Barbara in the hit 1974 song “Woman to Woman.” I guarantee you won’t be telling the other woman how you are providing for him and how much you love him. Letting her know isn’t going to make the situation any better. Honestly, she is glad you’re doing these things because she doesn’t have to.
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Nowadays, these “Barbaras” are going to tell you the truth and we all know the truth hurts. They will not care about your feelings, especially if she already knew about you.
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Now, if the other woman doesn’t know anything about you, her response may be a little different depending on her intentions with the man. She may want him just as bad as you do and could care less how you feel. In fact, she may do for him just to keep him. Whatever he is telling her about you, she is going to ensure that she is doing the opposite to just to have him around.
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Some of these “other women” don’t feel like they owe you anything and if you are mad, they feel you should be discussing this with him. Is she right? Of course! If you are upset about your man’s infidelity, then you need to let him know how you feel and handle the situation. It seems that the main chick always comes for the woman thinking she knows about the relationship, when in fact, she thought she was the only one. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Everyone handles their situations differently. But know that when you call her, you aren’t going to hear the good things. You may need to prepare yourself for the worst, although the worst may be losing the one you thought was going to be your forever.
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Have you ever called the other woman? How did you handle it?