⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It’s quite humorous and enraging in the same breath that the very “thing” soldiers have died and fought for has limitations to a certain demographic- blacks. Millions have sacrificed for our freedoms, but when you’re black those freedoms have parameters. You see, blacks can’t protest shhh. In fact, …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Why Do People Put Others Down For The Type Of Job They Have?
If you’ve ever worked in customer service, you’ve probably heard someone say something like, “that’s not a real job.” But why isn’t it? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ So many people underestimate what it really is to work in customer service. You’re subjected to rude customers and sometimes even poor working conditions daily. But …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Why Do People Prefer HBCUs Over PWIs? (Or Vice Versa)
There is an endless debate about which institution is best for African American students, a primarily white institution or a historically black college or university. But, what many fail to realize is that it’s all based on one’s own experience. For HBCU students, attending a school whose principle mission …
Read More »Breast Cancer Awareness Tips
October is National Breast Cancer Awareness month. While breast cancer awareness is something that should be discussed all year round, this month we should especially take time to educate ourselves on the second most common kind of cancer found in women.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Did you know that about 1 in 8 women …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Are Black People Considered “Angry” If They Don’t Want To Be The Bigger Person In Certain Situations?
⠀⠀⠀ With so much controversy going on in the world, many people fail to realize black people have silenced themselves on numerous situations just to be the bigger person. But, it seems as if when the black community starts to speak out and take a stand, they are viewed as …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Why Is It Important For Blacks In High Positions To Stand Up For Their People?
You would think that in 2017, the slave mentality of some people wouldn’t be present. Well, guess what? It’s here and it’s up to us to stand up for our rights. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ We can protest as much as we like but there are some people in this society that …
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How ” secure” are you with yourself and your relationship? Better yet, how well do you communicate with your significant other? I know those are open ended questions, but they need great consideration if you and your mate are going to explore Couples Clubs. Couple Clubs? These are membership -privy …
Read More »Women Enjoy Strip Clubs Too
There is this a common misconception that the strip club is only for men; that the only gender that can find gratification there are males. To be quite honest, that is far from the truth. Oddly enough, strip clubs that feature women are quite entertaining for us women. (FYI: …
Read More »Privilege : Why The Majority Turns A Blind Eye To Racism
As much as we would like to say America is a post-racism society, the sad and deathly reality is we are not. How can we be past anything that is fundamentally embedded in America? Our society thrives off the divisiveness of racism and has built a capitalistic system from it. It’s …
Read More »Being Unapologetically Black In America
More and more in today’s society, we see race becoming a constant topic of conversation in America. With powerful movements such as #BlackLivesMatter, #Thisiswhywekneel, and many more, race is being brought to the forefront of the oppressor, similar to the way it was many years ago. Black artists, directors, …
Read More »What It Means To Be Black In America
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ To be black in America is to live a life of constant battle. We must mind our manners and “stick to” whatever “job” we have. Take whatever “massa” says and leave our dignity by the wayside. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Our only role in life, as prescribed by others, is to entertain …
Read More »Ballerific Kicks: Nike Changes The Game With New Fly Leather Technology
Nike revolutionized the game with the #FlyKnit technology. Engineering a breathable and flexible sock like upper transformed how consumers and athletes envisioned performance , comfort and style. Now Nike is taking the shoe revolution one step further. The shoe brand is continually being innovative and forward. This time, their …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Does Your Best Friend Know Every Detail of Your Relationship?
In life, everyone deserves that one person that they can confide in and count on. We all need someone that will support us and love us despite our faults, that one person that isn’t blood, but is part of the family. Everyone deserves someone that they can call their best …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Masturbation and Reaching the Big “O”
While most of us love to talk a good game when it comes to our sex skills, we never seem to be as open about the things we could improve on. Though successfully pleasing yourself can vary from woman to woman, there are a few keys to successfully achieving …
Read More »Don’t Bring Your Issue With Me To Social Media
Social media has led people to believe that they can say anything they want without receiving a response back. Technology has allowed thumb thugs and trolls to hide behind their computers and spew ignorance and hate without consequences. But, many fail to remember that reality is on the other side …
Read More »Are You Down To Date Someone With An STI? Let’s Talk
So you go on a date with an attractive male or female. You guys have great conversation and end up going on more dates. At this point, you’ve learned a lot about this individual that really intrigues you and you are ready to seriously …
Read More »11 Ways To Stay Motivated When All Seems Lost
blogged by @RaquelHarrisTV It happens to the best of us. I hate that phrase…. It happens to ALL of us. When you’re on the road to success, staying motivated isn’t always an easy task. Sometimes there are days when you’re just…outdone. You literally don’t have the energy to move, and …
Read More »Ballerific Guide: Four Steps Towards Positivity Starting With A Smile
There is a lot of things going on in the world but I want you to remember to smile. Here are four easy steps to make sure positivity wins! #GoodVibesOnly Don’t Forget Always keep your blessings in the front of your mind and on the tip of your tongue. The …
Read More »Quit Trying To Turn A Situationship Into A Relationship
Ladies, why is it that the less interested men are in us the more interested we are in them? Although he says all the right things, his actions show otherwise. Maybe it’s the thrill of the chase that we feed off of. Catching feelings for a man who isn’t giving …
Read More »Is Your Vagina Depressed?
-blogged by @siren We all go through “dry spells” at one point or another, who would have thought that not getting enough sex could lead your vagina to depression. According to a London based sex therapist women who don’t have a sexual relationship with a partner or themselves can experience …
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