If we’re still picking the wrong guys in 2016, it’s us ladies, not them. A woman requires some degree of discernment when dating that we either haven’t achieved or is directly overlooking because of life circumstances or lack of maturity. While I’m sure that we’ve all had our fair …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships: Who’s To Blame For Your Man Cheating? Could It Be YOU?
They say any attempt to try and change a man will be futile; but are you unknowingly trying to change your man from the polygamist or polyamorist he naturally is? You call it cheating, disloyalty, betrayal… but is he wrong for being himself or are you wrong for denying the …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships: Survive Your Next Break Up Before It Happens – blogged by: @mr.blacktalks
Let’s face it, the end of any romantic relationship sucks. Whether you’re the one who calls it quits or the one getting dumped, no one wants to be ill-prepared for a break-up. Here are a few quick tips to help you bounce back from a break-up before you even find …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships : 3 Reasons Why Picking A Struggle Partner Might Be Your Ticket- blogged by @niksofly
Nothing tickles my fancy more than seeing The Committee To Struggle For Eternity (TCTSFE) rear their ugly heads. They’re so LOUD and so WRONG on a consistent basis. Reading has not been fundamental for them. If you want more from life, including a man that has more than penis and …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships: 3 Ways To Land A Baller – blogged by @niksofly
The idea that BALLERS are only interested in a certain type of female is ridiculous. Every man has various things that attract them, from the way a girl smiles to the way she walks and dresses. It’s normal for them to be just as attracted to the witty, reserved female …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships: Two is Company, Three’s a Crowd – blogged by: @Milagreee
“But he’s my best friend!” How many times have you heard these words come out of your significant other’s mouth, only to roll your eyes deeply? Seriously, give me a break. I don’t believe a man and a woman can be purely platonic friends. One of the two, if not …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships: The Disrespect Is Not Needed- blogged by @niksofly
There is no right or easy way for me to approach this. I would think as a society we have progressed past the labeling of one’s skin color, but a recent peruse of social media proved otherwise. I have written on colorism from two perspectives, with the inclusion of my …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships: Ladies, Men Need You to Raise Your Standards
When I was younger, I was I was an honor roll student from elementary through 9th grade. As I got older, of course I began to see the world different. There were things I wanted and things I wanted to do and at the time, making the honor roll …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships: There Isn’t A Shortage Of Good Men, Only Standards – blogged by @niksofly
Nothing irritates me more than to hear someone tell me that there are not any good men left. I don’t know where that lie was started, but as soon as I find its creator, if she is still living, we are going to have a serious discussion. The problem has …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships: How to Holla: What NOT To Do – blogged by: @thebuzzwithb
Sure, we ladies like being noticed. It’s not the sole reason we get dressed and step out of the house, but some attention, when done right, can brighten our day and even score you those magical 7 digits. Unfortunately, a lot of men seem to be doing it all wrong, …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships: Is This A First Date No-No?
This text conversation mad its rounds on Twitter yesterday, so I thought it would be interesting to ask Baller Alert readers what their take on the situation was. In the text exchange, it appears a man is attempting to take a young lady on their first date, but prior to …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships – 10 Reasons Why You Can’t Go Through My Phone – blogged by: Lip Service
What does it mean when your significant other heavily guards their cell phone like it holds the key to life’s meanings? Does this mean there’s a possibility that they’re cheating? What could they be hiding from you that is so dear that it’s worth inciting an argument? One thing is …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships – End The Blame Game: It’s Time to Boss Up – blogged by: @TheBuzzWithB
We are all guilty of it, ladies. The blame game. Blaming him for everything. He strung me along for 67 months. He cheated on me 1738 times. He’s been lying to me for all of the 11 years that I’ve sacrificed. He does this to me. He does that to …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships: You Don’t Learn to Accept His Kids, You Learn to Love Them
Ladies, do you date men with children? If so, you know that it can be quite an experience for both of you. Being a parent is hard, especially when you add the daily struggles of life, work, dating & relationships, and family into the equation. It may not be …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships: Has Social Media Destroyed Dating?
About a week ago, I was talking to two of my female co-workers about modern dating and some trending patterns and behaviors that seem to have become the unfortunate norm. I would say dating, for me, began during high school. If there was a guy that liked you, he would ask for …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships: The Triangle Offense of Love
Ladies, it’s time to suit up and head to the locker room! You don’t have to follow sports to know that March is a significant month for basketball. March Madness has almost every man in the world glued to the television and having endless guy talk about America’s second favorite …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships: Dating Tips for Single Moms & Dads
Imagine meeting someone new and trying to incorporate them into your daily routine with your children. This is a concern for so many single moms and dads that are still learning the ropes of dating. Questions arise such as when is it appropriate to introduce the idea of dating to …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships: The Passion That Doesn’t Die – bloggedby: @milagreee
What drives you towards someone with a passion so intense that it’s blinding? What can be so passionate that it can control your every move, your every thought, even your every step? What kind of connection is so controlling that the only word to describe the sensation is bittersweet? Is …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships: Did Valentine’s Day Break Your Situation-ship? By: @milagreee
With Valentine’s Day just passing, breaking so many hearts as it always does, it is time to look at something called a situationship. Situationships are fake relationships that leave the people in them comfortable, yet someone is always unhappy. A situationship happens when one person conforms to acting as …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships: “Do We Talk?”
We’ve become obsessed with laying claims to people that aren’t ours. With so many antics happening in relationships, the pressure is on. We don’t want to be alone and we want to feel like we have something that we don’t. That’s where “talking” comes in. We really ask each other …
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