Relationships

Disclaimer: Before you read further,  replace the word “Baller” with “boyfriend” if you find yourself easily offended. If you’ve ever been victimized by the cheating Baller, you know the agonizing pain that comes with such deceit. You find yourself asking why, seeking closure, and replaying the pain over and over again. …

You found out about your man’s side dealings, more specifically his side hoe, and you’re on a road to destruction, understandably so. You confront him, kick him out, seek revenge, or whatever your destruction entails. After the dust settles, and you still have a slither of sanity left, your mind …

You and your #MCE are mid Netflix marathon one Friday night, when suddenly all of the grape soda, peach o’ rings, and Lays are gone. Your man, being the hero that he is, makes a quick store run to re-up on all the goodies, before realizing he’s left his phone …

For the P.O.R.N. Method I posted last week, I got a lot of side-eye action from women who felt like it was all about how to please the Man, and ladies, I heard you! Fellas, listen up: 42% of women in long term relationships, are unhappy with the sex according …

Some of us got an early start looking for love. Whether you had a natural attraction, believed the fairy tales, grew up with it or had a rough life; we all want love. It’s unfortunate that all the wanting, wishing, waiting and praying doesn’t always lead to victory. For some, …

I realize now that anytime a “How To” is written regarding landing, dating or dealing with a BALLER, people are going to get upset.  So this is your moment TCTSFE (The Committee To Struggle For Eternity). Get enraged!   “Gold Diggers!” “THOTs!” “Whores!” “Groupies!” That takes care of the epithets. “Who …

You and bae have parted ways, and the world now seems like it’s over; what used to be romantic bed ridden nights, have been replaced with a bed covered in tears and dirty tissues. But because the world is not actually over, you have to carry on with life anyway. …

Have you ever found yourself watching a Tyler Perry movie and think to yourself “man I’m glad this shit couldn’t happen to me”. You have the light-skin pretty boy with perfect teeth about to get busted by his wife (probably played by Kimberly Elise or some other actress from your …

How quick are we giving it up ladies? After three months? Six months? A year? How about throwing at him on the first night? Yup that’s right I said it. Have you ever invited him back up to your room after the first night? Don’t be shy, there’s nothing to …

Don’t let the title fool you, there are countless ways to mess up a relationship. I’m not talking about the little things or your personal pet peeves. I’m talking about the game changers; the simple but necessary concepts that a lot of people both male and female fumble over time …

So what’s on your agenda for today, ladies? Maybe you are the everyday working woman, career driven, super-mom with multiple hustles. Maybe you’re the lady of leisure who wakes up, free of duties and couldn’t think of anything more pleasurable than a day of relaxing. No matter which of these …

Ladies, we’ve all had that one guy that just did not know what he was doing when it came to pleasing you. Most women would just move on and not think twice, but what happens if you really like this guy? Do you accept the wack D and not say …

Sex on the first night is always being debated. The opinions on the subject are normally split between males & females so the decision on if it’s okay or not is always up in the air. Girls are often split into thinking that sex on the first night will make …

Some people spend the majority of their lives looking for the man of their dreams. They have a whole list of traits from “he makes six figures a year” to “he says I’m beautiful even with my bonnet on” just to meet him and realize maybe they should have set …

So you decided to shack up before marriage and sadly it didn’t work out. Your relationship has run its course and not only do you have to deal with emotional baggage, but you also have potential physical baggage too. This isn’t like a divorce where the house and other belongings …

– Blogged By @SirRatchettness I’m not afraid to admit this, I’m selfish and I don’t see that changing anytime soon.  What’s the point of getting your pockets laced and your body tight just to be tied down to someone else in a relationship? The freedom that comes from being single …

When you’re in the market for a new car, what are some things you do before making purchase? Why don’t we do the same things when choosing a mate for ourselves? Do we not see a potential husband/wife as enough of a big ticket item that we require the same …

Being romantically involved with a Baller definitely comes with various perks and privileges, such as dinner at five-star restaurants, expensive “gifts of appreciation, “admission to exclusive events, luxurious vacations…oh, and did I mention   being flown out?   Being flown out by your Baller is truly something special, despite the simplicity.  Why?  …

What is love? What is a healthy relationship? Many of us stay in relationships out of pure comfort or because we feel as though starting over would be impossible and dread the idea of jumping back into the dating pool. Dating is difficult as it is, and when you’re in …

I am always writing about the do’s and dont’s of dating, of all the things that you should watch out for when selecting a mate. I wanted to write something which would pull at the heart strings. I wanted to reach out to those who are in love and realize …