Ballerific Relationships – Did You Get Pregnant To Keep Your Man?

Hello Loves!!! Today we have a serious topic to discuss, and YES this has actually come up in my circle of friends lately and I’m Stunned to say the least…..

I’m going to just throw the question out there and you’ll all know what the topic of this blog is:

WHY DO WOMEN INTENTIONALLY GET PREGNANT TO KEEP A MAN???

So, you have your boyfriend, things go on and on. Something happens and things aren’t going as planned and yall start fighting, the occasional fight turns into the everyday fight, that turns into eventual resentment and eventually the “boyfriend” starts to stay out late, gets late texts and suspect calls that he leaves the room to take. We all have either been in this situation or know someone who has. We all know that this situation is best if we just END it, but there’s always that ONE woman that decides she needs to keep this man, and her only solution is –yup- a baby. Now, where the hell is the logic in this woman? A baby? Another human life brought into this equation of never ending fights, secret texting and secret calls- you think that level of disrespect is going to magically change because you get knocked up??? I do not understand the logic; I’m not sure what the F is going through anyone’s mind?

What’s the thought process with that, like how to you come to that specific conclusion? I mean- what makes you think that this will fix anything?!?! On top of that- if he’s fighting with you Now, what’s going to happen when you’re hormonal? Also, if let’s assume that you’re fighting has caused a huge rift in your sex life, which is probably why he’s getting mysterious text and calls, what’s going to happen when you’re fat and prego? Do you think that forcing him to be a part of your life for the next 18 years, even if it’s financially, do you think that he’s really going to like much less Love you for that?? Who even came up with this jackass idea in the 1^st place, that girl, yes GIRL, needs a heel to the head. What other jackass idea should we lower ourselves to next? Stealing friends’ boyfriends when we don’t like ours anymore? Get pissy if we think our friends are looking better than us? Get jealous when someone at work gets acknowledged instead of us? If you haven’t noticed yet, all of these examples are VERY CHILDISH- and so is getting yourself fucking pregnant by some dumbass dude that you’re trying to trick into staying with your dumbass. Yes, I called you a dumbass, because if you’ve ever done this- or considered it, you friend, are dumb.

So what’s the solution you ask if you’re fighting and have NO other way of keeping this dude that for some reason you feel a need to keep? **PAY ATTENTION, THIS IS IMPORTANT** LET HIS ASS GO!!

Yes, that’s right ladies, let his ass go, and keep your ass moving. He’s not worth it, no one is. This is a stupid mentality, its temporary too, a child however is not. Please ladies, keep your dignity- take the 1^st step. Empower yourself to step it up and know when to not only let it go, but be the one to initiate it! Knock him on his dumb ass; he’s already thinking that he’s the shit since you’ve already been putting up with his shit already. It’s ENOUGH, I mean, that’s it. Enough…. Please don’t be so ridiculous as to A- lower yourself to even thinking those thoughts and B- to take the silent abuse from this dude, by accepting him getting those texts and calls and the ins and outs that’s a form – in my opinion- of silent emotional abuse. Don’t take it ladies; you’re WAY better than that!! Please use the brain that’s in you’re pretty little head- drop the ass that’s making you feel or even think this way. You’re just superior – it’s time to act like it!! That’s all for now loves, keep it classy & sassy!!