Dress For The Man You Want To Meet

Tired of dealing with ratchet, thug life, bang bang shoot em up type men? Is that all you seem to attract? Ever stop to think that maybe it’s you? Have you ever heard of the saying “dress for the job you want”? Well, the same rings true when you are on the hunt for a new beau. If you are looking for a classy man, you too must step up the class.

By now, we know the obvious, men are visual creatures. If you put it on display, they’re going to look. In fact, they’re going to wag their tongues like hungry hounds. It’s been this way since the Bible. But this is not whwat I mean by dressing for the man you want to meet. I’m actually talking about your fashion choices.

Those bandage dresses with 100 slits/holes/openings on the side, it may get you a lot of eyes, but are you really going to find an investment banker in that get-up? Probably not. In fact, you’ll probably snag a Baller for the night, but he’ll likely kick you out by morning. You’d be surprised how many women I know who don’t fit the cliché light skin, long hair, inflated rear, video vixen mold and can not only snag a Baller, but A-list Hollywood actors, investors and more. Here’s the key..

When going out, ditch the Instagram boutique dresses made of Spandex, Latex and Hoe-tex, and opt for something more Elle Magazine chic. Don’t just do this when you go to the club, do it all the time. Even when you wear sneakers, make sure you are clean, neat and well kept at all times. Hood and Ratchet looking attire will only attract hood and ratchet men. Unless that’s what you’re into, you’ll never get to the real money dressing that way. 

The key is to look as if you come from money yourself. Appear as if you’re a business woman. Appear as if you don’t accept anything less than the finer things in life. Sure, it may scare away those who can’t afford you — but that’s the point, right? It doesn’t matter if you’re the cashier at Saks or work in the stock room at Target, perception is reality. It doesn’t cost much to look like a million bucks. You don’t have to wear designer & tacky logos to look as if you came to kick ass and take names. Trust me, the minute you start to LOOK like a boss, is the minute when you will attract a boss.

Consider that the next time you want to look extra thotty or frumpy dumpy when you go out for lunch.