Michelle Obama’s new memoir “Becoming” is quickly becoming the talk of the town, as it reveals some of the forever First Lady’s most intimate experiences and thoughts. The latest story to hit headlines is how she was turned down by Melania Trump after she offered to help her with any advice.
It’s only natural to want to help the next person who is filling your spot. Obama mentioned that when she transitioned into her First Lady role, her predecessor, Laura Bush, offered her counsel, letting Obama know she was only a “phone call away.” As Bush did for Obama, Michelle did for Trump. But in turn, Trump chose to disregard her offer of assistance.
During an interview with ABC News’ Robin Roberts, Obama was asked had “(Trump) reached out?” Obama responded, “No, she hasn’t.” On Monday (Nov. 13) Stephanie Grisham, Trump’s communications director, said in a statement to CNN that the first lady was not in need of Obama’s assistance. “Mrs. Trump is a strong and independent woman who has been navigating her role as First Lady in her own way,” Grisham wrote via email. “When she needs advice on any issue, she seeks it from her professional team within the White House.”
It’s not the first time Obama and Trump have had awkward moments. Back in November 2016, a video of Obama accepting a gift from Trump went viral, as many thought the exchange seemed to be uncomfortable for Obama. “I mean, this is like a state visit, so they tell you that you’re going to do this, they’re going to stand here. Never before do you get this gift, so I’m sort of like OK. … What am I supposed to do with this gift?” Obama said.