Girl Code: She’s Cheating, Do You Tell?

Here’s another discussion piece on girl code. What do you do if you have a guy friend, whom you’ve been friends with for quite some time, and he introduces you to his girlfriend. In time you become increasingly close to his new girlfriend. You bond over time and she becomes just as close to you as your male friend. Only one problem, you find out she’s a whore bag and she’s cheating on your friend. 

Now there’s a dilemma. As a female, do you snitch on another woman, a woman who happens to be a friend of yours — or do you tell your male friend (that you’ve known longer) that he’s being played? What if somehow you become an accessory to her shenanigans and she uses you as an alibi? Things can go really bad really quickly if you don’t make a decision.

I mean, you can always opt to mind your own damn business but you’re emotionally invested in these two individuals. How would you look if you allowed your guy friend to get played and you didn’t at least drop a bat signal? Then again, you’d be breaking all kinds of Woman Laws if you snitched on your fellow female. 

So what’s a girl to do? If you ask me, your loyalty lies with the person you are closest to and that doesn’t necessarily mean who you’ve known the longest. That also doesn’t mean you run and go tell.  I would likely express to my female friend that what she is doing is wrong and leave it at that. That way when all hell breaks loose, I can tell my male friend that I at least had his back. 

What would you do? Is there a Girl Code for this?