I don’t know who put out this notion that men have to ask women for their number or to go out on a date. Whoever created this crap can kick rocks with the quickness.
Why should a woman have to wait for a man to ask for her number or to go out on a date?
Times have changed and women are becoming more vocal nowadays. When a woman sees something she wants, she’s going to go for it. We’re no longer afraid of coming off as too assertive, too dominant or not “mysterious” or “chase-able” enough.
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Although, there are some men who don’t know if a woman is interested in them due to mixed signals that we often throw out there, I’m here to change that. Ladies, let’s stop throwing signals and tell them how you really feel. No need to hold back. Who’s to say the feelings aren’t mutual?
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It doesn’t have to be public. Slide in his DM’s and give him your number. If he’s interested, he will text you. Once he texts you, then let the conversation guide you to the next step.
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No need to feel discouraged about going for what you want. You never know, he could be the one that you’re missing out on. But if you don’t make a move, you could possibly be missing out.
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What’s the worst thing that can happen? Hearing the word “no?” Well, if he says it, then it’s his loss. Just understand that a rejection is not about you. There is nothing wrong with you.
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Ladies, if you get rejected, it’s okay. It’s possible that he just wants something different, which means you wouldn’t want to date him anyway. You don’t want to spend your whole relationship convincing him to want you. Trust, that can be exhausting.
