Her Sexual Peak: Are We There Yet?

– blogged by:@A_SheWrites

No words can really express this electrifying outer body experience. Pheromones releasing into the air to match the euphoria in the room. Pacing yourself, your breathing is heavy, rhythmic like the shadows that dance in harmony across the walls. Your body is responding to this thrill and in turn, millions of nerve endings explode throughout your anatomy. The Big Bang theory has nothing on this moment. That moment the world stops and you accidentally lose control of your mind for all of 6 seconds. Eyes rolling towards the ceiling, toes curling, you’re in the zone. That “Om” state. The private place where you feel like you’ve reached heaven, that type of power. Sacred when done in unison, its soul tying. Like ecstasy on Ecstasy, Its the gateway drug to your emotions. The one thing that can make something so meaningless feel so spiritual. The God calling, to the profane shouting and the speaking of languages that are not of your native tongue. The praises, oh lets not forget about those damn praises. It’s the high that we chase, the climax, it’s the “Big O”.

And the truth is, all women secretly talk amongst each other about their sexual peak, the golden ages of sex and the fear of losing her sexual drive. With all the myths and facts, who in the hell really knows? When does it start, am I having it now, and when will end?

Some scientist believe that women reach their sexual peak at age 30, yet women that are well off into their 40’s and 50’s attest to having some of the best sex of their lives. Is it safe to say that women in their 20’s are just getting a sample of what amazing sex actually is? Yes, you are only practicing, just live long enough and you’ll see.

It’s true that women talk more about sex than men but the issue pertaining to being sexually stimulated and losing [our] “mojo” is done in total secrecy — like at ladies night or in group chats. At that point an emergency meeting is called, and we lay hands on our sister and see how we can help her during these unfortunate times. We’re borderline obsessed with the pure thought of it all.

Well there is great news, ladies. Earlier this year, the FDA approved female Viagra for women who have lost their sex drive, respectfully for women who have entered menopause. These women have little to no sex drive, their natural juices have come to a halt and if an orgasm happens its more like a miracle The little pink pill, Addiy, will be available and sold this October. However, there are always some serious precautions to take before trying this product: Addyi works on the central nervous system, which is why it’s in the same category as an antidepressant (CNN).

I think we all can agree that a woman is only having great sex if she, herself believes that she is having great sex. Perhaps it’s all in your mind. There is no beginning or ending. An orgasm can only be reached when your mind and body is present and on one accord. All of our bodies are different but we do undergo very similar changes, yet we experience them differently and at different times.

So to all the women in their 20’s and 30’s, If the body isn’t responding then honey, it may just be him, not you.