Baller Alert It's a lifestyle!
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We told you the signs to look for when your girl is fed up but what about your man? Here are six reasons your man is fed up and is probably about to leave.
1. You Argue Too Much
Watch your man, and then you should watch ya mouth. No seriously, he’s tired of constantly arguing with you about things that are either out of his control or you have yet to explain. Don’t expect your man to read your mind when you’re upset. Unfortunately, sometimes men don’t know what they did to upset you and it’s childish to start an argument with that foundation of thought. That’s just poor communication skills.
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2. You Won’t Let Him Be Your Man
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Yes, ladies, we are independent, and we can do whatever we want (Beyoncé voice). But at the same time let your man treat you like his queen. Don’t criticize every move he makes because that will only lower his self-esteem and push him away.
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3. You Try To Run/Change Him
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A man is a man is a man. Aside from that, he’s his own person. He isn’t simple, basic or slow. He’s a human being and should be treated with the same respect as everyone else. He isn’t a doll you dress and undress or a project you’re working on. He’s imperfect just like you, and your goal should be to build and grow with him.
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4. You Won’t Let the Past Go
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Look, either go to therapy, break up or let the bs go. There’s no point in bringing up old issues if you aren’t going to do anything about it but recycle it and cause more arguments. Sometimes the toughest decisions are the best ones and if you can’t get over y’all’s past trials and tribulations it’s time to keep it pushing.
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5. Your Friends Stay In Y’all’s Business
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Your girls don’t need to know every inch, and nook and cranny of y’all’s relationship. Telling your friends all your business is an invasion of his privacy whether you see it that way or not. It also makes it uncomfortable for your guy to be around your friends when they know everything about you all’s relationship.
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6. You’re Still Getting Over Your Prior F-Boys
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Sis, I’m sorry but it’s not your current man’s fault you got your heart broken by other men. It’s his job to be patient, yes, but once you start putting that extra stress and creating abnormal standards for him to fit you’ll end up pushing your bae away. Don’t waste your time if you know you aren’t mentally ready for a relationship. Take a break and love yourself before starting a new journey with someone else.
