Since when is it okay to be a the extra bitch that only gets the dick when HE is ready to give it to you? Females are making it acceptable to be played with like toys. It is not and NEVER will be okay to have to wait for him when he should be waiting on you.
Now I won’t lie I have been the side chick before. I had to wait until he had free time and wasn’t with his wife and kids to get at least a hour with him. At the time it was fine for me because I had other things to do besides being under man all day. Now that I look back on it I was being played to the fullest and didn’t even realize it. Or maybe I did realize it and I just didn’t want to believe that he would do something like that to me.
I’m going to give you a few ways that made me realize I was a side chick…
8. He never ever EVER let me meet his friends
7. We were NEVER seen in public TOGETHER. He would always meet me at a hotel.
6. He never called. He only sent text messages.
5. When he was around me and anyone called I had to be quiet.
4. I never saw him during the day.
3. Holidays were always a lonely time for me.
2. I never met any of his family.
1. He was some type of public figure i.e. rapper, athlete, DJ, etc.
These are just a few ways I figured I was a side chick. This isn’t even scratching the surface.
