Is It Ever Okay To Take Another Woman’s Man?

Everybody plays the fool side-chick sometimes right? Is it ever okay to take another woman’s man?

Let’s say you meet a guy, he seems to be perfect. He takes you out on several dates, he always picks you up from your place on time & you guys are really hitting it off. You think that it’s quite possible that he could be the one, or at least you’d like for him to be, until one day he tells you that he has a secret to disclose. He says that he’s currently married but going through a divorce. He says that he’s separated and that he cares deeply about you and wanted to make sure you found out from him rather than anyone else. Of course you’re in shock at first, but then you start thinking “He’s separated”. It’s better than them being together, right? Is it okay to be a little selfish and continue to date him although the ink technically hasn’t been put to the divorce papers yet? I mean, who’s happiness is more important than your own at this point?

What about the guy that you practically grew up with? He was your first love and you his. Everytime he’s around you get an overwhelming feeling of love. You both know that eventually be together, get married, have the house with the white picket fence and the 2 kids with the dog. But now he has a girlfriend. Do you care? Do you always have dibbs on him whenever you want him? Technically he was yours first!

These are two examples that I think one would feel it was okay to take another woman’s man. I for one feel that you can’t take anything that doesn’t want to be taken. I’m also a firm believer in Karma. With that said, although I’ve never been the “taker”the situation could definitely go either way. It can also be very messy if you’re not complete open, honest and careful.