Jada Pinkett Smith Opens Up About Losing Her Virginity and Masturbating at Nine on “Red Table Talk” With Her Mother and Willow Smith

In this week’s episode of Jada Pinkett Smith’s hit Facebook show, “Red Table Talk,” the actress opened up about her sexuality, and everything from losing her virginity to her addiction to sex toys. In turn, the actress’ mother, Adrienne Banfield Norris, and daughter, Willow Smith, opened about their own shameful and awkward introductions to sex.

Ahead of the conversation, Jada shut down any criticisms that her 17-year-old daughter with husband, Will Smith, is too young to be part of the conversation. “I do not want Willow to have shame of any kind,” she said, adding, “You know, when you can talk to your mother who’s been through a whole lot in regards to sex…I wouldn’t say I’m a connoisseur, but I’m 47, so, enough said.” 

In fact, according to Jada, such conversations have proven to be beneficial, as she recalled that her first sexual experience was “amazing,” due to her grandmother’s openness about sex from a young age. 

“My grandmother taught me about self-pleasuring because she wanted me to know that that pleasure was from me,” she said. “She didn’t want me to fall into the hands of a man, and if he gave me pleasure, to think that that was him. And she taught me at nine!” 

However, Jada’s early exposure to sex and masturbation didn’t come without consequence. In fact, she said by the age of 21, she became addicted to giving herself orgasms. 

“I think by your age, I gave myself multiples first,” Jada said, referencing Willow’s 21-year-old friend, Telana. “Multiple orgasms. I was really into it at one point. Just because I was in an exploration state and I was abstaining from men. And I actually think I went through kind of an addiction, too, with it. And then one day, I was like, ‘Enough. You’re having five orgasms a day.’ Yeah, you get addicted. You can create so much pleasure, you constantly want it.” 

Also in the episode, Willow opened up about her introduction to sex, which featured a surprise appearance by her famous parents, which Jada shared with ET last month. 

“It wasn’t like I was seeing everything, the room was still dark,” Willow explained on the show. “It was like when I walk into you meditating. It’s like, when mommy’s meditating, don’t get into her business.” 

Have you ever walked in on your parents?