Ladies, Keep Your Stock High

As women,  we TEND to be more self-conscious than our male counterparts when it pertains to perception.  We generally spend a significant amount of time and attention on our physical appearance, as well as how our physicality will be perceived by others, whether positive or negative, intentionally or unintentionally.  Does my makeup look good?  What about my hair?  How does my butt look in this dress?  Flat?  Should I change?  You can see my “pudge.”  Let me put on something else!   Even as young ladies we’re encouraged to look presentable at all times because “you never know who you might see” and “first impression is everything.”  I guess it’s fair to say that women are faced with an enormous amount of pressure to be physically captivating.  Thanks society!  We genuinely appreciate it.

As women, we also have to remember that in order to be considered attractive or enticing, attributes other than physical presentation are taken into consideration.  We’re also “judged” based off who we’ve interacted with romantically and/or sexually in the past.  It’s unfortunate, but that’s how today’s society operates, so, with that said, ladies, it’s imperative that you keep your stock high.  In other words, be “picky.”  Be picky about who it is you spend your time with because not everyone deserves it.  Be picky about who you invite into your home because not too many people will be able, let alone willing, to provide you with the same type of comfort and security.  Be picky about who you give access to your “pocketbook.”  Your “pocketbook” is valuable and you should treat it as so.  It’s not returnable.  Once you give it away, that’s it.  You can’t “take it back” no matter how much you desire to do so.

Affiliate yourself with men who will keep your stock high, not those who will cause it to plummet.  Quality men are key to a successful stock (even though they’re certainly not the only contributing factor).  They’re the ones who have something POSITIVE going for themselves.  They’re respectful, accountable, and self-motived.  They’re supportive…physically, mentally, and emotionally.  They’re confident in who they are, as well as their abilities.  They’re stable.  Quality men are known for creating smiles, not tears.  The moment you begin to divert from a man of such caliber, your stock will begin to drop.  Your stock is like your reputation…once it begins to deteriorate, it’ll take a significant amount of time to restore it.

Keep your stock high ladies!  Be CHOOSY!  Every guy who is interested in you does NOT deserve your time, attention, and definitely not your “pocketbook.”