Let’s Talk: Can You Be With Someone That’s A Dreamer and Not A Planner?

Relationships are about working and building together towards a great future. When you work together, the two of you can accomplish a lot. Sounds great, right?

Well, what happens when your partner wants the same things as you but doesn’t take the initiative to get there? The problem is that you have a dreamer on your hands and not a planner.
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We all have dreams but in order for your dreams to become a reality, you have to plan and execute. No matter what your dreams are, you have to plan them out.
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If the two of you want to get married, you have to plan. What’s your budget for a wedding? Do you want a small and intimate wedding or do you want a large and extravagant wedding? You can’t just go into situations without preparing yourself. A relationship is a partnership, especially when the two of you are trying to become one.
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Are you trying to purchase a home? What does your income look like? What’s your debt to income ratio look like? Are you saving for a down payment? Planning consists of asking yourself questions and being able to answer them along the way.
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Everything we want to do in life involves planning accordingly. You are planning for the good and the bad. What you don’t want to do is to allow your dreams to become just a dream. Make them a reality!
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It’s going to take a lot of discipline, patience, planning, dedication, and determination. Remember, you got this. You can do any and everything you put your mind to as long as you believe in yourself and have a great support system by your side.
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“A dream doesn’t become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination, and hard work.” – Colin Powell