Let’s Talk: Just Because You Bought Me A Drink Doesn’t Mean You Have To Be In My Face All Night

– blogged by @lanaladonna
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“Somebody get this jigaboo away from me,” haha no but really. Ladies, I think we all can agree that the worst thing a guy can do is sit (well try to at least) in your face all night after he buys you a drink. How many of us can relate?
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Now fellas, don’t be offended. It’s flattering and polite to buy a lady a drink. It’s also an easy way to express your interest in a woman, and a great conversation starter.
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However, it is not a pass for you to stay in a woman’s face all night. Men who do that are seen as annoying and a turn off for most women. The club and/or bar scene is a place to mix, mingle, and have a good time. Save all of that conversation for the first date.
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If a guy is kind enough to buy you a drink though ladies, that also doesn’t give you the right to be a snob toward him either. It’s very rude and unattractive for a woman to receive a drink, and blow the buyer off right after as if he didn’t just spend his hard earned money on you. Sis, let that man shoot his shot without you, instead of crushing the courage he mustered up to even get your attention.
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In a nutshell, “you knew what it was when you signed up-” both parties. Fellas, get the lady a drink, ask her for her number if that’s what you want to do, and continue on with your evening. Ladies, be a lady, smile, and grin, and do the same.
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Thoughts?