Let’s Talk: How Do You Teach Your Mate To Please You?

There are some things that our mates should know about us when it comes to our likes and dislikes. Although they are supposed to know, some of them clearly have no idea.


It’s not that they are not into you, they just don’t pay attention like they’re supposed to. For example, ‘What’s his favorite position?’, ‘Where’s her hot spot?’, ‘Do they like romantic dinners?’, ‘What kind of movies do they like?’-these are all questions that you should be able to answer about your significant other.


If your mate doesn’t know how to please you sexually, then it’s your job to show him/her what you like and don’t like. If you are into kinky sex, then speak up. Many of us have a hard time reading your mind, so we need a bit of instructions or a guide to ensure we are fulfilling every need.


Take their hand and guide them where you want them to go, whether it’s in your panties or in your boxers. If he doesn’t know how to eat the box, then tell him where to put his tongue. If she doesn’t know how to work the stick, then you need to show her what’s going to keep you going.


Although pleasing your mate isn’t limited to sex, it is still a huge necessity. If you can’t please your man or woman in the bedroom, I guarantee someone else wouldn’t mind taking your position.


Take the time to learn their body, for example, what makes them reach their peak? Do kisses between her thighs make her lips quiver?


Pleasure inside and outside of the bedroom is extremely important and you have to stay on your “A” game. So be open minded, have fun, and don’t be afraid to help your partner out if their struggling!

About Peachkyss

Peachkyss is the Fashion Writer and Content Curator for Baller Alert, who keeps the reader up-to-date on the latest trends, the latest luxury brand collections, and how to "ball" on a budget.  Peachkyss has her Bachelors in Elementary Education with a concentration in Mathematics from Norfolk State University and Masters in Middle Grades Mathematics from Walden University.  Have a question about what your favorite celeb is wearing or fashion advice, email me at [email protected] "Style is a way to say who you are without having to speak."

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