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Op-Ed: “I Was That Party Girl”: How the Diddy & Cassie Trial Made Me Reevaluate My Past

A Personal Reflection on the Diddy Trial and the Complexities of Consent Under the Influence

by Lacy J
May 26, 2025
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When the Party’s Over: My Past, Cassie’s Story, and the Blurred Lines of Consent

A Personal Reflection on the Diddy Trial and the Complexities of Consent Under the Influence

This article is an opinion piece and reflects the personal views and experiences of the author. It does not necessarily represent the opinions of Baller Alert, its staff, or affiliates. All individuals are encouraged to form their own perspectives and engage in respectful dialogue.

Watching the ongoing trial between Sean “Diddy” Combs and Casandra “Cassie” Ventura has stirred up memories I thought were long buried. Cassie’s testimony about the “freak-offs,” drug use, and the blurred lines of consent hit close to home. It made me reflect on my own past, the choices I made, and the situations I found myself in during my younger years.

In the early 2000s, the nightlife scene was electric. Clubs pulsed with hip-hop beats, and the air was thick with the scent of excitement and weed. For many, including myself, it was an era of exploration and indulgence.

I was a self-proclaimed party girl, reveling in the freedom of youth. Ecstasy, affectionately known as “E,” was a staple of our nights. The allure was undeniable: euphoria, uninhibited dancing, and a sense of connection that felt profound in the moment.

But with the highs came the lows. There were mornings I awoke with hazy memories, piecing together the night before with a mix of amusement and unease. The realization that I had willingly taken substances that impaired my judgment led to a complex web of emotions—regret, confusion, and self-doubt.

As I transitioned into adulthood, building a career and establishing a sense of self, those nights became distant memories. Yet, the feelings they evoked lingered. I began to question the choices I made and the situations I found myself in.

Cassie testified that she felt like a “sex worker” during her relationship with Diddy, coerced into orchestrated, drug-fueled sex sessions called “freak-offs.” She described how both she and Diddy were often under the influence, with drugs playing a significant role in their interactions. According to court documents, these events were not isolated incidents but part of a pattern of behavior that spanned years.

Reflecting on my own experiences, I recall nights where substances lowered my inhibitions, leading me into situations I wouldn’t have considered while sober. The euphoria, the sense of freedom—it was intoxicating. But the morning after often brought confusion, regret, and a lingering question: Was I truly consenting, or was I just going along with the moment?

The Diddy and Cassie case underscores the complexities of consent, especially when substances are involved. It’s a reminder that being under the influence can impair judgment, making it challenging to give or interpret consent accurately. Cassie’s testimony sheds light on how power dynamics, substance use, and emotional manipulation can intertwine, creating situations where the lines between consent and coercion become dangerously blurred.

Reflecting on my past, I recognize the importance of accountability—both for myself and others. It’s essential to acknowledge the role substances played in my decisions without absolving responsibility.

Growth comes from introspection. By examining our past actions, understanding their implications, and learning from them, we pave the way for a more informed and conscientious future.

In sharing this, I hope to encourage open conversations about consent, substance use, and the importance of understanding our past to inform our future. It’s not about dwelling on regrets but about learning, healing, and advocating for a culture where consent is clear, respected, and paramount.

Resources for Support:

  • SAMHSA’s National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) – A free, confidential service available 24/7 for individuals facing mental and/or substance use disorders.
  • RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): Provides support for survivors of sexual assault and resources on consent.

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