The “talking” stage before an exclusive relationship can always get a little sticky. It can be difficult trying to figure out what is acceptable, what you’re “entitled” to, and what are the boundaries in your situation-ship.
Men usually have the impression that women get super clingy, super fast; which, can be true. There are those women that want the dog to pee on THEIR tree & THEIR tree only, very early in a situation-ship.
Then there are women like me…I want anyone to do whatever that want to do, before the title. That means I won’t go through your phone, ask you about other women, or any of that. I want you to treat me a certain way because you want to, not because I put pressure on you.
But, in my experience a lot of men take this and run with it. Instead of appreciating the…let’s say, “space”, they use it as an excuse to delay commitment.
So, my question to you guys is…do men commit sooner when they feel the pressure? And, do you want a man that commits to you PRIMARILY because he feels the pressure?
Which team are you on? #TeamShortLeash or #TeamRoamFree?
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