Should You Set a Timeline for Tying the Knot?

When it comes to relationships, discussing the topic of marriage can be a bit challenging. For some, the decision to tie the knot is straightforward, while for others, the topic requires patience, negotiation, and a lot of thinking. This leads to a lingering question amongst many, “should you give your partner a timeline or an ultimatum for marriage?”

In a recent Get to Know Me vlog, influencer Miracle Watts answered some questions in a Q&A, with one of the topics explaining her thoughts on marriage.

The 31-year-old presented the question if she saw herself as a married woman, to which she replied, “of course,” just after the 11-minute mark.

She then followed up her response by hinting that she better be married soon and posed the question of whether it’s disrespectful for a man to make a woman wait for marriage after they’ve been together for a while and already discussed the topic.

Watts has been dating actor Tyler Lepley for the past three years. In 2021, we witnessed the chemistry between the two stars on the second season of STARZ hit series “P-Valley.” A year later, the couple welcomed their first child together, Xi Lei Lepley, in October 2022. Since then, we have seen Watts and Lepley enjoying being a family but loving on their little one.

Watts’ desires resonate with many and bring to light a common dilemma faced by many couples today.

Setting a timeline for marriage can have benefits and be a nice approach to ensuring both individuals’ needs align in the future. Additionally, a timeline can provide clarity and direction when it comes to planning life events and careers. Through conversation and discussions, it can also reduce the anxiety surrounding the uncertainty of the relationship.

But, on the other hand, these ultimatums can bring on a few challenges as well. The timelines can create unnecessary pressure and stress, leading to resentment and a feeling manipulation. This can also disrupt the natural progression of a relationship. To add, if you’re giving your partner an ultimatum, this can make them feel like the desire to be married isn’t genuine and lack authenticity.

While the road to marriage can be scary and complicated, it’s best to find common ground with your significant other regarding the idea. You can do this by keeping an open line of communication between the two of you and having regular, honest discussions. It’s also important to be flexible as life changes can happen unexpectedly, making it necessary to adjust to the new norm. Lastly, make sure you and your partner have a mutual respect for each other’s views and opinions regarding marriage so no one feels unheard or dismissed.