Here are things you should never overlook when getting into a relationship because they might cause major problems in the future. You ready?
1. You smoke, he doesn’t. Or vice versa. This might seem like something slight, but I’ve seen this cause so much tension in a relationship, whether we’re talking cigs or weed. Smoking is a lifestyle and if your partner doesn’t share that lifestyle it can be irritating working around that. And if your man smokes weed and you don’t, chances are he’s blowing it down with another female.
2. His ain’t s*** friends. If they aren’t s*** now, don’t expect them to magically turn into s***. These are the people that are going to be around for BBQ’s, birthday dinners, and possibly the God parents of your child. Watch closely.
3. He never wants kids. That’s cool NOW, because you might not want them either. But, if you want a baby after marriage you guys have some things to talk about. Not to mention if you have a little “slip up”. Plan B, or nah?
4. His overwhelming love for anal sex…I mean…
5. His mama has this whole Mama Dee thing going on. You don’t want to be blindsided by their relationship and realize you’re competing with her for his time and money.
6. Social media overexposure. If you’re a Twitter Honey or he’s the one thirsting over women on Instagram, don’t overlook the power of the social media. Many couples have different ideas of what’s acceptable to post/like. Establish boundaries early.
None of these are instant deal breakers, but they have the potential to get really ugly so don’t sleep on the facts.
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