Sugar Mama: If I Like It, I’ll Pay For It

Would you buy him a short set?We recently featured a blog post where we asked if you would ever accept money for sex. We got a lot of different answers but this time we want to know ladies, would you ever PAY for it?

Imagine this, you experience the most mind blowing sex of your life. This man is like a unicorn. You’ve never experienced pleasure this great in your life and you’re afraid you never will again. He is intuitive. Knows what to do, when to do it and is all around good at his job. Only problem is, he doesn’t want a commitment and honestly, neither do you.

How do you show him that you appreciate his “time” without offending him or making him feel cheap? Face it, men are a bundle of ego. A good gesture can easily be taken the wrong way.

With that said, men like gifts too. I asked some of my male social media followers about how they would feel if a woman treated them, bought them things or even paid for sex, and while a few said they wouldn’t want it, others were totally into being treated every now and again. A few reasons they mentioned is because they knew that it was likely just a reciprocated gesture. Let’s say he normally pays for dinner and one night you decide to handle the bill. Chances are he won’t be opposed to such a gift.

Think about it ladies, we already indirectly spend a ton of money for peen that could potentially be terrible. We get waxed, get our hair done, buy expensive clothing, splurge on lingerie, all to impress a man with no guarantee that the sex will be any good at all. Why not directly reward him for a good performance. Face it, mind blowing orgasms don’t happen every day. Imagine his face when you say “Sweetie, that sex was amazing. Let me take you to dinner.” Or if you’re not hungry, leave a note and a couple hundred dollars on the dresser before you go home. He may be flustered at first but I’m more than positive that he will be encouraged to keep up the great work.  How many men are going to turn down a nice watch, a fancy suit or a nice pair of shoes all because he did a good job. I’m not only talking about sex, but just in general. 

If you like it, there’s nothing wrong with paying for it every now and then. Just remember men are like puppies. It is important that you reward him but don’t spoil him.