There have always been a ton of opinions and suggestions on what is required to have a sustainable, long-lasting relationship. Patience, forgiveness, compromise, communication, and commitment are understandably major requirements for healthy relationships. Somewhere along the way, things like tolerating disrespect, long-suffering, embarrassment, sticking it out and making it work …
Read More »When The Sex Is SO Right But The Person Is So Wrong
Depending on who you ask, sex is an important factor in a relationship. But what happens the sex is so great, but the person you’re involved with is so wrong? Let’s say you’ve been dating someone for a while and you begin to notice all the signs that they are …
Read More »Inexpensive Getaways For You and Your Significant Other
Relationships can be difficult if you don’t make time for one another. Often times, we get so consumed with work, kids, and just life itself. Although we are busy from time to time, a getaway is usually what a couple needs. The getaway will give you both the opportunity to …
Read More »“Free My Homie!” Why Do We Demand The Freedom Of Our Loved Ones While They’re Locked Up?
It’s become common nature in our community to shout out, wear t-shirts, pretty much support any family and friends who commit crimes and go to jail. Knowing that their actions, in many cases, were wrong and probably against your personal morals. Where do Family and friends draw the line…if there …
Read More »Taking His Last Name Versus Hyphenating Your Maiden Name…How Much Does It Matter?
Marriage can be such a beautiful thing! But realize that there are a lot of behind the scenes processes that aren’t as glamorous as the ring and the proposal. Major life decisions are involved like buying a house, deciding prenup or no prenup, joint bank accounts and MANY other factors. …
Read More »How To Stay Away From Married Men
A committed and married man in and of itself should be the ultimate no-go zone for single women, but that’s just not always the case. There’s a certain allure to forbidden love that can be very appealing and while both parties share responsibility for their actions, there are some things …
Read More »What About Your Friends Sis?
“I feel so sorry for women who don’t have “female friends”. When I first saw this tweet by Issa Rae, it really spoke to my spirit and I couldn’t help but wonder, why do so many women have such animosity towards each other? Now, before you hop on the “because bi$!& …
Read More »Stop Telling Social Media and Your Family About Issues WithIn Your Relationship, If You’re Going to Change Your Mind and Stay
Everyone goes through ups and downs within their relationship. Often times, we feel the need to vent to get out the frustration that we are feeling. Regardless of your overwhelming emotions, keep your family and social media out of it. How many times have you logged onto social media and …
Read More »Married Woman And Her Side Piece Catch An Uber To A Hotel, The Driver Was The Woman’s Husband
Don’t let the title fool you, it didn’t happen just that easily. God told that man he’s gonna learn today…in a pretty bizarre way. The woman identified as Yeimy and her side bae Jesús were gonna end their evening together in a #Columbia hotel so they requested an Uber to …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Have You Ever Thought “Only If I Would’ve Met Them Earlier In Life?”
People often come into our lives for different reasons, whether it’s for a blessing or a lesson. We may not know why this person has entered our lives but eventually we begin to find answers. Let’s say you’ve been dating this special person in your life who you have been …
Read More »Going Against The Grain: Would You Date Someone Who’s Not Your Type Because You Think They’ll Treat You Better?
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. We all know this right? But when it comes to dating, we’ll go after the same type but expect them to be “different” like they all proclaim to be in the beginning. Some …
Read More »Let’s Talk: If Your Significant Other Cheated On You, Does The Number Of People They Slept With Matter?
Cheating is unacceptable, regardless of the reasons why the infidelity took place. Many wonder why the topic of cheating continuously comes up as part of a conversation as if it’s the norm. Well honestly, cheating happens every day, and it seems that it has become acceptable. The reason why I …
Read More »Ballerific Relationships: Is It Ever Okay To Get Involved With A Married Man?
In what scenario is it ever okay to date a married man? There’s always a gray area in every situation, and although many of us say that we’d never lust for a married man, there’s no way we can say that for sure. In some cases, the other woman …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Can Women Go From A Bad Boy To A Clean Cut Business Man?
Before you stop at the title and say, “What kind of question is this? Ummm yeah,” let’s really discuss this topic behind the title. Ladies, I know we all have a “type” that we are simply attracted to and can’t get enough of them. I mean we can’t help that …
Read More »“It’s Not Me, It’s You”: Are Women Incapable of Taking Responsibility For A Failed Relationship?
blogged by @peachkyss and @msjennyb There has been a meme floating around stating “Never heard a female say ‘I had a good n*gga but I f*cked up.” Of course, my first reaction was “What f*ckboy wrote this foolishness?” It’s not that women are incapable of acknowledging their wrongdoing, at …
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