Tag Archives: side chick

Disclaimer: I do not condone this kind of behavior. But if you’re going to be a side chick, be smart about it and have some compassion; Don’t ruin someone else’s holiday just because you don’t know how to stay in your place. This guide will tell you everything you need …

“New Year, New You” right? But how can you be a “new you” when you’re still worrying about the same bull? Excuse my bluntness, but 2019 is tomorrow, and you still don’t know if your man is really your man.  We’re not just talking about cheating, either. This goes as …

In recent months I have been asked the same question multiple times in many different ways, “How do you know so much about being a side chick?” Well, the answer is simple, I have been one. (Shocking? Surely not) I highly doubt that this confession is shocking in the least, not …

I don’t know who has put out this notion that the “side chicks be winning.” Like, what are they exactly winning? They are playing a position that can be easily be fulfilled by the next person. Let’s just say that the guy does upgrade you from the side chick to …

Relationships are hard as hell, whether you are dating or married. They require so much from both parties to keep the sparks flowing just like it did at the beginning of the relationship.   As women, we try to be the backbone that our man needs to show how much …

We as women get caught up with the idea that we have value in being the “main” chick. Our position as number one is some how better than the side’s position at number two when in all actuality we are in the same boat. Being first place only matters in …

-Blogged by @A_shewrites – “So when does it end? How long will it be before men, attached and married stop approaching me?“ The real question is, when will I stop allowing myself to be a side chick? Unbeknownst to the rest of the world living their perfect heart-shaped cookie cutter …