What You Won’t Do, Someone Else Will

One thing you can’t fake is chemistry, and while some would like to believe that whores and vixens have corrupted their men to be more sexual, that’s not true. Men don’t always cheat with the sexiest women on the planet; sometimes it’s a Plain Jane who got his nose wide open because she plays into his interests. If he likes it, she likes it, or is willing to try it maybe once. That’s what separates you from her, ladies. Being willing to try new things is always a plus. While having an opportunity to spice things up a bit is cool, some are looking forward to heating things up in the bedroom more often and in different ways. Constantly saying ‘No’ gets played out fast.

A person shouldn’t be on a schedule for sex, and one shouldn’t use sex as a token in a relationship. Of course, I think a man and woman both have a right to say when, where, and how, but does saying no to certain things that one requires sexually force them to get it somewhere else? When do you give in and say yes, just because it’s what your partner prefers? Although we may not want to believe it, men are wired differently than women in many ways, with sex being at the top of the list. So not playing into some of their guilty fetishes and sexual desires can put a strain on your relationship in the bedroom. It’s not always a hoe that will do those dirty little things for him; the good girls can be bad also so let your guard down ladies!

One question that’s often asked is whether or not a person starts off fulfilling every sexual request in the beginning, and one day just stop? That may or may not always be the case in some situations. People are turned on by different things for various reasons, and it’s easy to become spontaneous at any given moment and request something different. Being open to trying new things should excite you and your partner, but if you don’t like it, there are always other ways to adjust.

A few things to try might help get things on the right track-

• Toys- Adult Toys are always stimulating and should be used in various ways.

• Role Playing- A naughty favorite that allows one to shift personalities quickly.

• Foreplay- Adding a little foreplay may lighten the mood, tries to spend a little extra time concentrating on his/her favorites.

• Flirt- Flirting is always a sign that you’re looking to progress things