Ballerific Relationships – Why Don’t You Want All Of That Man?

Being a sideline heaux, jumpoff, or other woman has created its own trend in the media and becoming a popular title being worn by women all over. A sideline is a woman that has relations with an already “taken” man. How is this woman benefiting from this situation is the question? Is there really still a such thing as a sideline being that its rumored men are treating them equally if not better than their “main squeeze”. What does sidelines offer?, All I have spoken with says they offer the same things the main woman does but doesnt have to deal with the pain/heartache (Lies). So ladies why are you okay with settling for half a man that owes you nothing and can only give you some?

Personally, Im to selfish to share my d*ck or even the thought of knowing hes cheating emotionally, mentally, or financially with another woman. I thought being connected to your man emotionally is the strongest bond you can share, and I would feel cheated if this wasnt the case.

A man that cheats isnt honest, and hes not a good man but we already know this as women. So why would we even consider this situation? I dont want half a man and will not settle for one and ladies you shouldnt either. We should respect and love ourselves enough to know that we come second to none and should be upheld as the queens that we are. Men are suppose to love, respect, and care for their woman dont let anybody tell you differently.

It seems some women cant get a man to “claim” them so they settle for messing around with a taken man (that still cant claim them) but they are fine with that. A woman that will accept half a man shows the type of woman she is. She is a woman who lacks character, esteem, confidence, respect, self love and worth (lost). Shes usually a woman with a lot of excuses to such as: She didnt pursue it (but she didnt stop it), She didnt know (A woman knows when shes not the only one) She doesnt mind being the other woman because shes to busy for a man like that (You not busy enough to get the ‘d’ but you to busy to be shown love, care, passion, and respect? Giiiiiirl Stop!) Etc. Do know vulnerability is defined as a role, not who we are as a person.

Ladies that have found themselves in this role all say its not a good look, doesnt feel good, and its something they will never do again. Its the fantasy that keeps it drawn together, the thought of the thrill? Ive had one to tell me that the man in her situation is the only person that can take her out of character, behaving in ways she normally would not and she hates to know that he has that type of control over her it makes her feel crazy. I explained to her the condition of Dickmatized, Its a State Of Being Were The Woman thinks unlogical in everyday situations because she has had the d*ck. In other words she doesnt have the ability to think straight. Sidelines will accept what that man says were a Strong woman who knows what she wants will demand it.

Ladies dont numb yourself behind a man thats not yours and dont be dumb to think there arent good men out here, because there is. Men respect women with standards, better get you some. In my opinion a woman settling for half a man is deeper than what we see and say. I believe what you see as a child, your moms relationships with a man plays a big part in this matter. As little kids “girls” look up to and watch their mother in how she deals and treats her man, Think about it! Dont hate the Player, hate the Game.