Ballerific Relationships: Women Making The First Move Versus The Thrill of The Chase

Let’s say you meet a guy that you are really feeling, and the two of you decide to exchange numbers. The two of you begin talking, but it seems like things are moving very slowly. He hasn’t asked you out on a date, and you want to know whether he’s feeling you the way you’re feeling him.  Do you wait for him to make the first move, or do you put your pride aside and go for it?

It’s natural for women to let the men make all the decisions. It’s how we were programmed. However, the problem is men move as slow as molasses. Men know instantly that they like you but won’t say anything. It doesn’t help that they are incredibly hard to read.

As women, we know what we want and when we want it, which is our downfall at times. Sometimes a mixture of other emotions and past relationships can cause us to make rational decisions that could end up driving him away.

Many women believe that the woman is supposed to be approached, regardless of her attraction. They feel that coming on too strong can scare a man away, especially if he’s not exactly ready for commitment, and his only intent was to “have fun.” Rushing the relationship is never a good idea. Other women feel that the thrill of the chase died decades ago, and it’s a new day. They feel that waiting too long can give off the wrong impression. It’s possible that he may think that you’re not interested in him and end up walking away. Nowadays, more women don’t want to wait and don’t mind making the first move.

At the end of the day, it’s about. communication. For those of you who’ve been both of these women, which approach was more successful for you? Do you find that you get the guy when you go after him, or does he appreciate it more when you let him make the first move?

About Peachkyss

Peachkyss is the Fashion Writer and Content Curator for Baller Alert, who keeps the reader up-to-date on the latest trends, the latest luxury brand collections, and how to "ball" on a budget.  Peachkyss has her Bachelors in Elementary Education with a concentration in Mathematics from Norfolk State University and Masters in Middle Grades Mathematics from Walden University.  Have a question about what your favorite celeb is wearing or fashion advice, email me at [email protected] "Style is a way to say who you are without having to speak."

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