Baller Alert Entertainment & Lifestyle 
I spotted this new series over at Nerd At The Cool Table and found it to be really interesting. We hear a lot about men cheating. Often times with the inclusion of double standards. Men high-fiving each other over having side-chicks, while damning the woman to a life of whoredom over dealing with a man who’s currently involved (as if she’s the one who vowed to be faithful). It’s interesting to hear about female cheaters and see how people react to their stories. I’ve included a few stories below. Read the rest at N@TCT (Click HERE).
“Back in MySpace days I was in a relationship with an older man. I was 23 and he was 31. I thought he was a good person he played the role well until one day I noticed a change in him. So I looked through his phone and found out he was cheating on me. He was meeting girls via MySpace telling them all sorts of lies and fucking them. He became abusive and started to do anything he felt, like coming in the house when he wanted and even spending the night w these women. I wanted him out my house but I didn’t know how to do it because of how abusive he became. I was so hurt and didn’t know how to get out of the situation he made me feel so bad and ugly and then I met a guy who made me feel the total opposite. He was the one who I would go to when he didn’t come home or when I needed anything. I ended up cheating with him but I never felt bad because to me the relationship was beyond over in my mind and shortly after that it ended. I don’t condone cheating but you never know where life will take you and what hurt and pain can drive you to do.” – Anonymous
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“Me and mike grew up around the same area. He was a few years older than me. Fast money ..ladies man type of guy. Me, I was the cute girl from around the way so our match was instant. We were together for 7 years … 5 of which were ok! Granted his lifestyle brought lots of drama and lots of other women but I was content with being #1 – We were eating, everybody was happy and I literally had no worries (I was about 21 at the time young and in love). Regardless of all the other women and anything else his lifestyle brought I was faithful. THEN ….one day our life came crashing! He took a major Loss and we lost everything! At the time I had just finished school and was working, we had 2 apartments 2 cars and money just wasn’t an issue. Needless to say that was my time to step in as any women would … And I did!
Unfortunately my income wasnt enough to keep up the lifestyle we were use to! 1 year goes by … I’m still paying everything from the weed we smoked to the rent to the insurance on the cars. By this point we downgraded…. 1 apartment 1 car and lived more modest! He never bounced back from his loss (not sure if he wanted to I think he got very comfortable very quick) and literally became the neighborhood joke but I still stood with him. Meanwhile – I’m a pretty girl … I’m getting the “you’re too good for this blah blah blah” …n!ggas are at my neck. Plus with the story they’re on it ten times more!
When a man can’t provide for his family it takes a toll mentally! So not only am I dealing with the finances I’m being verbally abused because of his lack of “maning up”. Fast forward year 2 of brokenness (year 7 in the relationship) I couldn’t take no more – I had met somebody and he was doing everything my man who I was busting my ass to support wasn’t or couldn’t. I carried on the “affair” for months and soon after broke up with my bf. Me and the other man never got serious and me and my ex don’t speak! I did tell him about the other guy not because he needed to know but after 7 years of bullshit he deserved to be hurt! Was I right … Probably not but I wouldn’t change it! Best decision of my life Because the nigga is in the same position I left him in 4 years ago” – Anonymous
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“Yes, I’ve cheated on my boyfriend in the past. I was a bartender , he knew this when he met me. I never gave too much attention to the men that came into the club. He started listening to his friends saying I was being flirtatious and in guys faces being too friendly. Understand that being a bartender, you have to be friendly!! I was never disrespectful and everyone knew I had a boyfriend. So.. One night as I was walking in the door and he grabs my phone and throws it. He’s livid and I’m not sure why! He’s yelling and cussing me out. I grabbed my phone and left. I found out that he was told by one of his “Boys” I left with some n!gga I gave my number to.
Now here’s the funny part, that “nigga” was my cousin that was too drunk to drive. I took him home on my way home. I was furious, so there was a guy that had been on me for some time. Nice guy , good looking, and had his shit together. I hit him up and went to lunch. We started going on little dates. At this point I’m not even having sex with my boyfriend. One night after dinner and a movie, yea I cheated. I had sex with the young man, and it was great. At the moment I wasn’t at all thinking about my boyfriend.
The next day my boyfriend calls me and wants to know why I haven’t been around or been to his house. I told him I had been seeing someone. I could tell how hurt he was. I was hurt and felt the regret starting to build up. I couldn’t handle his insecurities and lack of trust … But in the end I did exactly what he thought I would do.. I feel I only did it because he pushed me to do it. I was wrong, and won’t cheat again, he didn’t deserve it .
The guy I cheated on him with….we continued to date and mess around. We never got serious and are still friends to this day.” – Anonymous
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“He was my high school sweetheart, we were 2 years apart so: Met when I was in 10th grade and he was a senior. We didnt start the relationship til my senior year of hs. Well by then he had a baby. So of course with that comes with the baby’s mother. She was a hoe from around the way and that’s not opinion thats documented fact lmao. We were young so its whatever. We did ok for the first few months. He would have me come over whenever she had the baby over for my comfort lol. But that didnt work. Anyway, she used to call him just to randomly talk and shit like they were friends. He’s telling me hes annoyed and blah blah blah but I get in his ear about being the dumb dumb to fuck a hoe raw. Life goes on, I graduate and go away to college. He spoils me while Im there first semester. She gets my number “somehow from his cellphone” starts calling my dorm room saying that they messing around at home. Im only an hour away in Buffalo so I go home one weekend. I cant find him anywhere! I go to his bm house, yes I know where she lives. His car is parked out front. I knock on the door like a real woman would with my 2 friends waiting in the car. Her cousin or whoever opens the door. I ask for both of them my bf and his bm. Of course Im pissed. She tells her cousin to let me upstairs and I tell my friends its ok Ill be right back. I go upstairs and he’s in her room with her daughter(previous relationship) and his son. The kids sleep laying on the bed and he sitting on the floor with his shirt off LOL drinking Seagrams gin or some shit! We all exchange words but nothing crazy. The BM point was made I saw what I needed to see. I went back to school and fucked one of the popular Upperclassmen! Funniest thing to me is it got back to him fairly quick because I picked the university to attend that all his best friends went to as well. LOL
Was it worth it in the end NOPE. The guy I cheated with was boring as shit in bed and I didnt do freak shit til I was like 21! LOL And for what its worth I loved my boyfriend dirty draws. I was gonna take him back anyway. Spent plenty more years with him after that. But thats a completely different story” – @SunshineTheCurv
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“I’ve only cheated once and it was a result of being smothered and isolated within my relationship at the time. I also felt I wasn’t appreciated and therefore when the opportunity presented itself (and I was drunk)… It happened. I told my bf though and he held it against me till we broke up.” – Anonymous
