You Smashed Him. They Started Dating. You & Her Become Friends. Now What?

You and homeboy are just having a good time, nothing serious.  You guys are each other’s go-to for sex and it’s a perfect situation. After about 3 months of fun, you guys stop messing around for whatever reason.  Maybe you got a man, maybe he got a girl, your schedules conflicted, whatever, nothing bad.

Then you notice he has a girlfriend. Still, who cares.

Life is funny, and the world is small.  But somehow you and ole girl meet.  At first, you keep it cute because you aren’t messy. Then, uh oh, you start to like the girl! You two start hitting it off.  Next thing you know y’all are going to the club together, and slick gossiping about your men to each other.

And don’t let it get to a point to where you see her man while you are with her. You guys will end up making eye contact like, “Don’t.Say.ANYTHING!!!”

This is a problem women that work in nightlife encounter many times.

So, what the hell do you do? The problem is, you’re too far in to tell her and her not be mad that the man she talks to you about has seen you naked. And, you didn’t tell her in the beginning because who knew y’all would be friends??

The hard part about this is that no one did anything wrong! You didn’t smash him when they were together, you didn’t even know the girl, and you didn’t seek her out to be your friend.

This is just a lose/lose situation. You can either try to live with this secret forever or search long and hard for the perfect moment to spill the beans.

If you remember, this same thing happened with Evelyn and Tami and let me say, Evelyn did not pick the right place and time to spill the tea.

Has this happened to you? What did you do?

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