blogged by @baetoven_
So you’re doing some fall cleaning in your contact list, but you don’t know where to start. All you know is you’re done dealing with certain things and expect to be treated nothing short of amazing when it comes to others. But you can’t cut off everybody, so we’ve compiled a life of people you need to rid yourself of to help you out. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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1. Freeloaders. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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These are the people who continuously need something from you but never have anything to offer in return. As soon as you need something from them, they are nowhere to be found. Even when you tell them about your problems, they find some way to make the issue about them. If you find yourself in a situation like this, it’s time to cut them off. There’s a fine line between being nice and being taken for granted. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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2. People who are always negative. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Energy is transferable and the law of attraction is real. If someone around you is constantly giving off bad vibes and sucking the life out of you with their problems, you’re likely to develop negative feelings yourself. Tell them to delete your number. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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3. Those who waste your time. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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You know that person that you give chance after chance, for whatever reasons, and they still continue to let you down? Whether they’re selfish, emotionally unstable or unavailable, flaky, liars or anything similar, it’s time to have a talk and take appropriate action. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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4. Your friend with benefits. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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If you want one, there’s nothing wrong with that and this message isn’t for you. But if you’ve unsuccessfully tried to make your situationship into a relationship, just throw the whole idea away and move on before you stress yourself out even more. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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5. The wishy-washy friend. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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When they’re at odds with their other friends, they come to you to fill the void (and they probably bring all the drama too). Or when they’re in a relationship, they disappear for months. I’m not saying you have to cut someone off for not having time for you, but if you feel like a person is using you when it’s convenient for them, it may be time to delete the number. And if they gossip to you, they’re probably gossiping about you anyways.
What other kinds of people should get deleted?
