We recently asked whether you would ever accept a gift or a splurge from someone you are dating. This time we want to know, ladies: would you treat him?
Imagine this. You are dating a man who makes you feel great. He is thoughtful, attentive and good at making you feel like a priority. The only catch is that neither of you is looking for anything too serious right now.
How do you show him that you appreciate his time without making him feel awkward? Face it, men have egos, and a good gesture can easily be taken the wrong way.
With that said, men like gifts too. I asked some of my male social media followers how they would feel if a woman treated them to dinner or bought them something nice. A few said they would not want it, but others were totally into being treated every now and again. A big reason they gave is that it feels like a reciprocated gesture. If he normally pays for dinner and one night you handle the bill, chances are he will not be opposed to the gift.
Think about it. We already spend a ton of money to impress, from hair and nails to clothes and date night outfits, with no guarantee of anything in return. Why not reward a man who is consistently good to you? Imagine his face when you say, “Sweetie, tonight is on me.” Or if you are not hungry, surprise him with a nice watch, a fancy suit or a great pair of shoes. How many men are going to turn down a thoughtful gift just because they did something right?
If you like it, there is nothing wrong with treating him every now and then. Just remember that men are a lot like puppies. It is important to reward good behavior, but do not spoil him.
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