Jayda Wayda is getting candid about the emotional toll of feeling mistreated by people close to her. In a heartfelt moment, the entrepreneur and influencer opened up about frustration, disappointment, and finally realizing that being kind does not always guarantee respect.
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Jayda explained that she moves with intention in every relationship because she already expects things to eventually fall apart. “I’m so intentional with how I treat people because I’m already prepared for it to go bad,” she said. “So anything I do that is so-called wrong to somebody, it is not out of ill intent.”
According to Jayda, one of the biggest issues she has faced lately is feeling like relationships have become transactional. She shared that too many people keep score instead of valuing genuine connection. “I don’t like people that keep score,” she said. “I feel like all of my relationships lately have been score based.”
She also admitted that part of the blame falls on herself for allowing unhealthy patterns to continue without enforcing boundaries. “I fought myself 100% because I allowed these things to continuously happen without setting boundaries because I’m just so nice and kind,” she said.
Now, Jayda says she is learning that forgiveness does not mean giving someone unlimited access. “You can forgive. But you can’t give people the same access because they can’t wait to use it against you.”
The reality star added that staying in her own space has brought her peace, away from what she called unnecessary drama. She ended with a blunt message about people mistaking kindness for weakness: “Being nice gets you used. Being nice gets you manipulated.”
