Keri Hilson Says Athletes Are “Stunted Emotionally” When It Comes to Love and Relationships [Video]

Keri Hilson is opening up about her past experience with athletes, including their emotional struggles while in a relationship.

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The R&B singer got candid on Cam Newton’s “Funky Friday” podcast, sharing insights that came from real-life situations. “I think that you guys have, relationally, you’re stunted because a lot of people have appeased and placated you, and so you’ve gotten your way with women, with teachers, with sometimes pastors,” she said.

Hilson explained that the demands of professional sports can limit their abilities to be good partners.

“Women don’t challenge a certain side of you relationally. In my experience, that was apparent, that just stunted emotionally, like, learning things, we’re talking in 30s, that maybe someone at 21 would’ve known,” the songwriter added.

Hilson then listed key areas where athletes tend to fall short.

“You were paid to run the ball down the field. Your job had to run precedence over a lot of things. So, it’s not your fault at all, really.” She added, “You haven’t learned how to love. That’s a talent, a tool that you haven’t needed.”

Hilson pointed out that she has only dated two athletes. She was with professional basketball player Serge Ibaka from 2012 to 2016. Hilson also dated former NFL wide receiver Ricardo Lockette from 2017 to 2020.