Baller Alert It's a lifestyle!

1)Talk with your “baller” about rules, structure and discipline. The two of you must see eye to eye. 2)Let your “baller” deal with discipline at first. You have to establish yourself in the childs life before you can discipline them effectively. 3)Your “baller” must always respect you in the presence …

As previously posted on BDK So with university drawing to an end for the year, and the roller coaster ride I have already had to the start of this year, it would be accurate in me saying I am due for my holiday! That’s right New York, Atlanta Miami all …

We learn growing up that the first man we will ever love is our father. He is or should be the example we look to when deciding on our mate. However, many of us weren’t privileged enough to grow up in a household where both parents were present. As a …

In honor of National Black Music Month, I thought it would be great to highlight some of the lesser known talent of the industry. We’ve heard time and time again the stories of the pioneers and the trailblazers in music, so we wanted to get you savvy on some folks …

If you’re over 35 or in your 40s, you may want to consider dating an “older” baller. These men are usually divorcées, have children and established businesses and wealth. They are looking for love again or at least some companionship. You don’t have to play games, you get to be …

What does he really mean when he says, “I’m done?” As women, we tend to make our views or thoughts, theirs. If a guy says, he’s feeling you, we sometimes assume he’s ready to be our man. When in actuality, its a whole different ball game. Communication is key, however, …

Starting in April 2008, Food Network will have a bright new face at the table — Sunny Anderson. Sunny will be the newest addition to Food Network’s popular ‘In the Kitchen’ weekend block with her new series, Cooking for Real. With an understanding of the need for uncomplicated dishes with …

Now that you’ve snagged a rich guy, you’re going to want more than just the money and jewelry that you’ve become accustomed to. It’s time to seal the deal. Maybe you’ll fall in love and live happily ever after in a fabulous beach house in Malibu. If not, California is …

The more exclusive the place, the better chance you have of meeting suitable sugar daddies. Donald Trump’s wedding would have been an ideal place. Once you’ve seen a sign of obvious wealth, i.e. a fancy watch or designer shoes, there are questions that you will want to ask. Your first …

It’s quite possible that someone who provides for you financially may feel entitled to tell you what to do, how to act, how to dress, how to speak, and so on–since they are footing the bill. If you’re completely dependent on their income, you may have to choose between your …

So guys…Lets make up Your mind. To often, I get get mixed feelings about the Good gurl and the Bad gurl. Like, a chameleon…women change from good to bad, or rather naughty or nice. So tell me, If you were “Santa” and I had been Naughty all year, WOuld I …

I had the pleasure of meeting Deon this past weekend in DC. I didn’t know he played football until my homegirl told me. I thought he was just a friend of a friend. This brother is one of the most respectful and down to earth men out there. He gets …

Ladies, have you ever felt like making your baller feel extremely special? Perhaps, treating him to something you know he’d like, like tickets to basketball game, sending him away on a fishing trip, or simply just catering to him in every way imagineable. As much as you might hate it, …

What do people with astronomical amounts of money do? If they’re smart, they’d invest in things that would increase in value such as buying property, or buy shares in a prospective stock. But not all people think as logically as I do. I honestly feel once I come into a …

This weekend has felt like hell on eartth. Very muggy & humid, which leads to ultimate disaster. You break a sweat just at the blink of an eye. And if you’re anything like me, you only come out when the sun goes down. The heat not only does a number …