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I’m going to say it: I love TikTok. It teaches, it entertains, and “TikTok University” stays serving lessons you won’t get anywhere else. After the murder of conservative activist Charlie Kirk on September 15, 2025, my FYP went into overdrive with politics, identity, and a surprising topic: femboys. Not trans. Not drag. Just feminine-presenting guys talking about how some in their space lean conservative or even far right. So I started digging. The deeper I went, the clearer the contradiction got and the more it said about how today’s extremism markets itself online.
What a “femboy” actually is
“Femboy” is a slang term for mostly cisgender men who adopt feminine style or behaviors. The look and the community grew on forums and then exploded across Reddit and TikTok with trends like #FemboyFriday. It isn’t a gender identity in itself and doesn’t dictate sexuality. It’s fashion, vibe, and sometimes performance.
Why the far right talks about femboys at all
On the surface, the alt-right worships traditional gender roles and hyper-masculinity. You’d expect them to reject femboys outright. Many do, framing them as symbols of “civilizational decline,” a long-running talking point in that world’s writers and influencers.
But internet culture is messy. The same anonymous spaces that incubated 4chan-style edgelord politics also hosted queer and androgynous aesthetics. The overlap created a strange pipeline: some femboy creators echo right-wing dog whistles, while some alt-right posters flood meme threads with femboy imagery, sometimes lusting, sometimes mocking, often playing it off as “just jokes.” Queerty’s reporting captured creators and commentators calling it out directly: “the femboy community has a fascism problem.”
Post-irony: the mask that makes propaganda shareable
A lot of this happens through layered humor: memes so absurd you’re not sure what’s real. Pitchfork documented how TikTok’s “brainrot” feeds serve whiplash pairings, a goofy femboy-fantasy skit followed by anti-immigrant dog whistles over a hardstyle beat, turning bigotry into background noise. That confusion is the feature, not a bug, because it launders ideology as entertainment.
The case study everyone points to: “Nazi catboys”
Back in 2019–2020, far-right streamer Nick Fuentes boosted “Catboy Kami,” a kawaii-coded troll in cat ears who peddled racist shock content. Why platform him? Because he was good at going viral; entertainment value was the gateway to politics. That’s not me guessing. Australian public broadcasting documented Fuentes praising Catboy Kami’s meme power as a recruitment edge. It worked. The content spread, audiences grew, and the contradiction, anti-LGBTQ rhetoric packaged with camp aesthetics, became a calling card.
What this mash-up really reveals
Transgression as branding. The alt-right thrives on shocking the mainstream. Embracing a symbol that clashes with its macho image keeps attention locked and makes the movement look “internet-native.”
Masculinity anxiety. You’ll find users who rant about “effeminacy” one minute and lust after femboy aesthetics the next. Reports and creators describe real-world overlaps and relationships inside these circles, which expose the gap between the tough-guy posture and lived reality.
Identity becomes flexible online. If you post the right politics, some communities overlook the aesthetic contradiction. That’s the power and danger of avatar culture.
Normalization through the feed. When extremist cues hitch a ride on cute, chaotic, or funny content, they travel farther with less resistance. The more this cycles through For You Pages, the more desensitized audiences become.
Why Kirk’s killing changed the temperature online
Kirk’s murder turned up the volume on political content across platforms. It also sparked an uptick in threats and hoax calls, according to national outlets, as algorithms flooded feeds with “us vs. them” narratives. That climate is exactly where post-ironic propaganda thrives: highly emotional, highly shareable, and easy to misread as harmless.
So what do we do with all this?
Separate aesthetic from ideology. A skirt, eyeliner, or cat ears don’t make someone progressive or reactionary. Pay attention to the rhetoric and symbols embedded in the jokes.
Clock the “it’s just a joke” shield. If the punchline keeps circling racist, anti-LGBTQ, or authoritarian themes, that’s not random.
Curate your feed like your diet. Tap “Not Interested,” block liberally, and avoid boosting content you wouldn’t co-sign.
Support creators who educate. TikTok can be a classroom. Elevate the ones teaching media literacy and calling out manipulation.
Femboys didn’t “become” alt-right. A loud minority inside extremist pipelines learned how to use femboy aesthetics as bait. The contradiction gets clicks. The clicks build audiences. And the audiences are easier to radicalize when the politics hide behind a wink.
Sources
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Definition and growth of the femboy aesthetic.
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Coverage of the Charlie Kirk investigation and political fallout.
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Queerty’s 2025 piece on far-right currents in femboy spaces.
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Pitchfork on TikTok “brainrot” and normalized bigotry.
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ABC reporting on Catboy Kami and the far-right’s entertainment-as-recruitment strategy.
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Background on “decline” rhetoric in far-right thought.
Check out some tiktok videos on the subject:
@perdurabo #LanguageLearning #news #charliekirk #femboy #education ♬ original sound – JAXX
@perdurabo #LanguageLearning #news #elonmusk #furry #trans ♬ original sound – JAXX
@bottleneck_loser Be nice to your local femboy, they’re keystone species #fyp #trans #femboy #lgbt #transwoman ♬ original sound – Sabre
