Many have their interpretation of what should be discussed with their partner and what should be excluded.
If you are trying to have a serious relationship with your new boo that you’ve been dating for a while, you have to start your relationship with honesty. You don’t want to go into a serious relationship holding back secrets that could eventually surface and cause major issues.
The last thing you want is for your hoeness to be brought up by someone of your past. You can simply eliminate the hassle by being upfront. Many feel that it isn’t necessary to share because it’s in the past. Sharing something so personal allows your significant other to know how serious you are about them and the relationship while moving forward.
If you tell your significant other about your hoeish past and they leave, then they were not meant to be in your life anyway. Everyone cannot handle the fact that you’ve been with multiple partners. Some people can handle you being with 1-3 people sexually, but then you have some people that feel that more than three is too many.
Everyone is different when it comes to how they handle their past. As long as you are confident in who you are now, nothing else should matter. Just remember to be open and honest when moving forward and everything else will fall into place.
