There are two types of female friends you should avoid. These two types of females rarely give you compliments about your accomplishments, appearance, or overall being. You could show up to an event like you just stepped off of the cover of Vogue Magazine & she won’t bat an eyelash; Or you could have just made partner at your firm & she’ll simply say “oh that’s good.”
Female Type A Will Rarely Dish Out A Compliment Because:
1. She’s extremely insecure
2. She feels that uplifting you will somehow take something away from her
3. She wants to be you (keep your friends close and your enemies closer)
4. She wants what you have (car, clothes, house, man)
Female Type B Rarely Dishes Out A Compliment Because:
1. She’s a narcissist (self-centered, over the top)
2. She believes she should be the center of attention (she arrives late to an event; not because she slept through her alarm clock or her car wouldn’t start, but because she purposely left her house at the time the event started & sashayed her ass in late with “I Have Arrived” beaming from her face.)
3. She’s a narcissist
4. She’s a narcissist
5. You guessed it…she’s a narcissist
My advice: Drop these chicks like a hot potato! You’ll never be able to confidently express your happiness or sadness around them. Friendships shouldn’t be guarded. Friendships are the few things in life we choose, so choose wisely.
