Xavier Smalls apology is now front and center after backlash tied to a resurfaced Instagram Live. The Beauty in Black actor addressed the situation directly, saying he took time to reflect on what he said and how it impacted people. He explained that after listening back, he understands why some felt judged and dismissed. He also admitted his delivery lacked “love, humility, and awareness.”
Xavier Smalls apology. He shared that people close to him helped him see the weight of his words, so he could better understand the harm caused. He said those conversations did not come with condemnation, but instead helped him grow and gain perspective. Because of that, he acknowledged that his words could contribute to real pain, especially within communities already facing discrimination.
He also referenced serious issues affecting LGBTQ youth, including bullying and violence. While reflecting, he mentioned cases like Tyler Clementi and Jamel Myles to show the real-life consequences tied to harmful rhetoric. He said hearing those stories helped him better understand why language carries so much weight.
Beauty In Black ‘actor’, Xavier Smalls says God will not allow the gays into heaven:
“Not because he [God] doesn’t love you, but he’s so holy he can’t dwell with unholy people. And that
goes for other sinners…not just the LGBT…” pic.twitter.com/QYMW2XyRXf— Red Media (@RedMedia_us) March 19, 2026
Smalls made it clear he takes full accountability, stating that the damage done outweighs his intent. He emphasized that he never meant to harm anyone, however he accepts that impact matters more than intention. He also expressed regret and said he hopes people can see his heart moving forward.
He leaned into his faith as well, explaining that he believes God loves everyone deeply. Because of that belief, he said he wants his words and actions to reflect that love going forward. He also thanked friends, especially those in the LGBTQ+ community, who spoke honestly with him and helped him grow.
He closed his statement with a direct apology, saying he is truly sorry for any pain caused. He also encouraged people not to let anyone make them feel less than, including himself.
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