So, you’ve finally decided that it’s time to leave the bachelor life behind and settle down with the woman who’s stood by you through thick and thin. That’s great! But let’s face it—if she’s been putting up with your antics for years, she’s probably close to her breaking point.
Now is not the time for promises; it’s time for action. If you’re serious about turning in your player’s card and proving you’re ready for commitment, we’ve got you covered. Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you show her you’re done playing games and ready to make her the center of your world.
1. Be Truthful
Fellas, the first step is honesty. No more “alternative facts” or little white lies—you need to be straight with her from now on. Yes, it’s going to be tough at first, especially if lying has become second nature. But if you want to rebuild trust and start fresh, you’ve got to come clean about everything. Remember, she can’t be mad if you’re being upfront. Truth and transparency are the foundation of your new beginning.
2. Cut Off the Heauxs
If you’re ready to commit to one woman, the heauxs have got to go—no exceptions. It’s time to let them know that you’ve found “the one” and are ready to leave the streets for good. This means no more calls, texts, or DMs from them. Delete the “little black book,” clear out your social media, and block any unnecessary contacts. If you’ve smashed, thought about smashing, or even came close, hit delete. It’s time to show your girl you’re serious.
3. Spend Quality Time with Your Boo
Your girl’s trust may be shaky right now, so you’ve got to go the extra mile to make her feel secure. Start by spending quality time together. Show her she’s a priority by doing thoughtful things, like sending flowers to her job “just because” or planning a surprise weekend getaway. It doesn’t have to be extravagant—sometimes it’s the little things that mean the most. Let her know she’s the only one on your mind.
4. Respect the Curfew
If you’re serious about proving your commitment, late-night escapades have got to go. Staying out all night with the fellas isn’t going to convince her that you’ve changed. Talk to her about what she considers a reasonable time to be home and stick to it. Showing her you respect her feelings will go a long way in rebuilding trust.
5. Hang Out with Your Married Friends
They say you are who you surround yourself with, so it’s time to adjust your circle. Start spending more time with your married friends—whether it’s bowling, game nights, or grabbing drinks. Their positive influence can help you stay on track, and your girl will notice the shift in your environment. That doesn’t mean you have to cut off your single friends completely, but you need to leave the “single man behavior” behind.
For the women out there, what would you add to this list? Let us know in the comments how your man can step up and prove he’s ready to commit!
