Oh Okay Babe, Maybe Next Week By: @milagreee

Trying to figure out if the guy that you want to date or have already started dating is actually as busy as he says he is or if he is just blowing you off can be extremely frustrating. Some people have a lot of stuff going on in their lives, whether it be school, work, volunteering to walk the dogs at the nearby shelter, people ALWAYS have things going on. That being said, it is extremely frustrating when he is telling you that he does want to see you but he just doesn’t have the time. Now this guy will continue to have profound conversations with you practically all day (see blog in which I explain that TEXTING is by no means any kind of relationship at all, at least not those of us who are grown) but he still doesn’t make the effort to see you.

Let me run down for you what should tip you off and let you know that he isn’t all that damn busy because to be honest, any man that is interested will make time for you. Does he even call you? Are all of your interactions via wack a** texting? WOMP. A man should call you, not all day or anything but he should make some kind of an effort to get in contact with you regardless of the fake “connection you think you have through texting. You should NEVER be waiting on a guy to let you know when he available to make plans. If you kind of like him, you put him on the back burner and you continue dating because a real man will find a way to fit you in. PERIOD.

If he never makes solid plans with you and tells you that he will let you know when it gets closer to the day or he doesn’t call you till the day of to ask you out for a couple of hours later. BYE FELIPE. Do men not understand the amount of time and prep it takes for a female to get ready for a date? Do they not realize that things must be plucked, shaved, waxed? Hair must be done and face must be beat? Let’s not mention the killer outfit you have to pick out. GOOD BYE AGAIN.

The fool that calls you when he is wasted is my favorite (kudos if you picked up on the sarcasm) waste of life out there. He calls you slurring his words at inappropriate times of the day and then invites you over to his house or invites himself to yours. Now ladies, we all know what this horny little drunk wants and if you have any self-respect you will tell him to call you when he’s sober. We’ve all heard the song, let him call you when he IS sober. Especially if this is the only time this man actually makes an effort to contact you.
So, you weren’t busy enough to have time to get a little drunk, but you couldn’t make the time to take me out? OHHHHH, no thanks homie, go take several seats.

 If you are constantly wondering and trying to analyze his actions then he isn’t interested.  A guy that likes you lets you know it and makes the time and effort to see you regardless of how busy he is.