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Baller Alert’s Playbook: Mastering the Breakup Bounce-Back and Rediscovering Your Spark

by Crystal Gross
March 31, 2024
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Let’s keep it real: breakups can hit you hard, leaving you to deal with a whirlwind of emotions that might seem impossible to navigate. Yet, as rare as it might feel, heartbreak is a universal experience—practically unavoidable in the journey of love.

The aftermath of a split can feel like you’re stuck in an emotional quicksand. Life, with its relentless pace, doesn’t hit pause for anyone’s personal drama. But hold up, there’s a silver lining because healing comes with time. Initially, you might find yourself in a funk, shedding tears, or getting lost in the melodies of sad jams, thinking about what was. That’s all part of the process, but there comes a time when you’ve got to dust yourself off and step back into the rhythm of life.

Maybe blasting some City Girls or Future is the switch-up you need. The message here? Move forward and don’t let the past keep you from your shine. Breakups are tough, no doubt, but with a few solid moves, you’ll rediscover your swagger before you know it.

Feel Everything Deeply- It’s totally normal to ride the emotional rollercoaster of anger, pain, loneliness, or confusion. These feelings are tough but necessary. Sarah Gundle, a clinical psychologist, breaks it down simply: processing your feelings is crucial for moving forward. So, lean into those emotions without holding back.

Dive into What You Love- Singlehood spells freedom. You’ve got the green light to focus on you and dive into your passions without compromise. Whether it’s chilling with a good book or jet-setting on a solo adventure, now’s your time to indulge in activities that make you feel alive.

Lean On Your Circle- Post-breakup, it’s key not to jump straight into another relationship or lean too heavily on someone new. Instead, your squad and family are your go-to. A solid support system can be your anchor during tough times.

Cut Out the Triggers- Keeping tabs on your ex or wandering back to your old haunts won’t do you any favors. Clear out the reminders that tug at your heartstrings and keep you locked in the past.

Pen a Letter (But Skip the Send Button)- Got something to say? Write it out. Drafting a letter you’ll never send can be therapeutic, helping you to unload your thoughts and lighten the emotional load.

And remember, trust the healing journey and show yourself some love. Life doesn’t stop for anyone, and with each step, you’re getting closer to finding your vibe again.

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