How To Snag A Sugar Mama

Women can be Ballers too and since we have an increasing number of male members joining Baller Alert, it’s only right we assist them with snagging a Baller too. So, what are women looking for when they’re in search of a male companion to take care of? Well, here are a few things to keep in mind.

Hang Where Stella Hangs – Sugar Mama’s are born when women feel that they are out of options and time is running out. They’re usually older women who have devoted their entire lives to their career, to the point that they are in their 50’s, wealthy and lonely. Where do you find women like these?  Certain vacation spots and resorts are breeding grounds for these types of women. Also look for them at happy hours and believe it or not, male strip clubs with their coworkers. As with sugar daddies, there are also a few online dating sites to find a sugar mama. 

Offer Companionship – A Sugar Mama wants companionship, much like a Sugar Daddy does. She wants someone who will listen to her complain about work, rub her feet, make her feel like a queen. She wants the entire relationship without the time consuming courting. Jump right in, tell her she’s beautiful, offer to cook her dinner, do all of these things but NEVER offer to take her on a date. More on that later…

Don’t Say No – Sugar mama’s likely have kids. Their kids say no. They hear no at work. Maybe even from their husbands. They don’t want to hear no from the man they’re funding. Always be open to give your Sugar Mama the “Yes” she deserves. Happy Sugar Mama, Happy Life.

Amp Up The Sex Appeal – Listen, older women are filthy horn dogs! A lot of women reach their sexual peak around 35-45 years of age. 9 times out of 10 a sugar mama cougar is either not being satisfied by her husband or is single and sexually frustrated. Fellas, give her the sexy she’s been lacking in her life. Amp up the sex appeal, try new things, prove those rumors of younger men and their stamina to be true.

Need Her Help – The reason Sugar Mama & Daddies exist is because there is a “need” for their finances.  Your sugar mama wants to know that you need her just as much as she needs you. So casually mention that you’re in school or that your parents cut you off. Her nurturing nature will make her want to fill that void as a mother and before you know it, she’ll be taking care of you. 

Keep It Real  – Simply put, if you are with a woman who is interested in a long term relationship, don’t try to make her your sugar mama. Let it be known what you are looking for and don’t waste her time.