Ray J Blames His Looks For Never Getting A Diddy ‘Freak-Off’ Invite

Ray J is back at it again with another viral moment, and this time he’s taking aim at himself.

During a recent  livestream on Saturday, the R&B singer and reality star shared a hilariously self-deprecating realization about why he was never on the guest list for Diddy’s now-infamous “Freak-Off” sessions.

While the rest of the industry is staying quiet about their ties to the disgraced mogul, Ray J is out here wondering why he wasn’t “cute enough” to make the cut.

The conversation started when Ray J was catching up with some friends about a childhood crush who allegedly didn’t even recognize him when they crossed paths recently. After joking that her memory loss was likely due to his appearance, he quickly connected the dots to his lack of invitations to the mogul’s private gatherings. Ray J didn’t hold back on the self-roast.

“Just like when they keep talking about the freak-offs with Diddy, I’m like yo [I] ain’t ever got invited to the ‘Freak-Offs,’ and that’s when it hit me, I’m ugly. It hit me that I’m unattractive.”

This latest “crash out” is just the latest in a string of wild behavior from the singer, who previously sparked controversy by calling himself the “New Diddy” during a Kai Cenat stream late last year. Ray J seems to have a bit of a complex when it comes to being excluded from the “cool kids‘ table.

While many people, including his sister, Brandy, have reportedly checked in on him multiple times to ask ‘what’s going on,’ Ray J seems determined to keep his name in the headlines by any means necessary.

Ray J Says It JUST DAWNED On Him That He Was Not Invited To Diddy’s Freakoffs Because He Was TOO UGLY pic.twitter.com/pz1cv2okmX

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