Let’s Talk: Have You Accidentally Fell For Someone That You Didn’t Intend To Fall For?

The first thing that crossed your mind once you read the title is, “How can you fall for someone by accident?” Well, I’m here to tell you it’s true and it can happen.

People come in and out of your life for different reasons. You don’t know their purpose but later down the line, the vision becomes clearer.

There are times where you can have a great connection with someone that you weren’t attracted to at first. As time begins to pass, you realize how much the two of you have in common, how their sense of humor intrigues you , and how they treat you when it comes to your needs.

The reason why it’s an accident is because you have become attracted to who they are, despite their situation. In some cases, he or she could be in a relationship. You don’t want to interfere with anyone’s relationship or be the cause of it ending. You try to hold back the feelings you have but it’s hard because this person has sent certain signals that can possibly confuse anyone.

I know there are going to be some people that will try to act like they’ve never been attracted to somebody else’s man or girl. Honestly, grow up because it happens all the time. You just have to watch yourself and try to back off, regardless of how you feel.

It’s understandable that things just happen and you can’t help who you fall for.  But, I will say that you don’t want to get too involved because someone will get hurt and that someone just may be you.

Be honest with yourself and understand that your happiness will some day come. Just be patient because only time can tell what will happen in the future.